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SAD syndrome?

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gracesmum Sat 14-Jul-12 19:48:24

Some of us admit to feeling not a little down in the dumps/fed up/emotional/p****d off at the moment and I wonder if it is to do with the fact that we are not getting our sunshine and vitamin D? We might expect to feel a bit like this in February after a long dreary winter, but mid-July? I don't have to worry about entertaining young children, my holiday was not ruined and I have gven up on the garden, so why do I find it so enervating to wake up yet again to raindrops on the window? To get soaked when Grace has her bedtime walkie? To want the heating on?
Oh for just a day or two of sunshine to make us all smile again

bett Thu 19-Jul-12 18:05:19

Yes, it was getting every body down I think, My second daughter rang up one evening nearly in tears. I am really fed up she said, I am going for a sun week to Greece. Do you remember that one week when we had summer? lovely, That was the week she went to Greece. It turned out that her friends were browner than her. bett. smile

gangy5 Wed 18-Jul-12 11:51:47

I think we might be able to survive the dullness if it was a little warmer. I turned the heating on for a quick burst up until a few days ago. It seems though that this depressing weather may be coming to an end. It certainly will be a relief to those of us who entertain our grandchildren during the summer holidays. It's much easier to be able to get outdoors with them - nice country walks, a day on the beach, picnics etc.

NannaB Wed 18-Jul-12 08:26:15

At least it didn't rain here on St Swithens day! I am off to Zante to get some sun next week. So need to see blue skies.

crimson Tue 17-Jul-12 22:58:17

He was a bit odd; became my ex husband....

Anagram Tue 17-Jul-12 22:26:39

How odd! grin
I know we old hippies had some strange ways, but I've never come across that one before!

crimson Tue 17-Jul-12 21:57:46

He was quite house trained [even when drunk] so I assume he thought he was doing it for a reason.

Anagram Tue 17-Jul-12 18:25:29

Did he mean to put the paraffin heater out? I mean, is that why he did it, or was it an accident? confused

crimson Tue 17-Jul-12 18:21:12

In student days I seem to remember my then boyfriend putting out the paraffin heater by pee'ing on it. It's a wonder we survived those days, what with paraffin heaters and candles everywhere and our minds being in la la land most of the time.

Greatnan Tue 17-Jul-12 18:10:46

I am afraid that is an urban myth - I saw it on one of those odd programmes that dispel them. Apparently, the stream of urine is not continuous!

Elegran Tue 17-Jul-12 17:54:36

There was a story (possible urban myth) about a dog that peed against a metal lamp-post that had a short-circuit. It quite galvanisd him

crimson Tue 17-Jul-12 17:23:06

Not sure if this actually happened [memory not good] or just one of those rural myths but men needing a wee on the way back from t'pub. Ouch.

Greatnan Tue 17-Jul-12 17:05:52

I wonder if it would affect someone with a pace-maker?

Bags Tue 17-Jul-12 16:49:12

When I touched electric fences as a child, I thought it was more like a thump. The charge is given in pulses so that would make sense.

JessM Tue 17-Jul-12 13:20:44

Yes I have touched electric fences myself - did not know what to make of child's tolerance - maybe high pain threshold? Maybe placebo effect - you tell em it will tickle and that's what they think...

Greatnan Tue 17-Jul-12 13:20:35

We got a really good deal through Eastjet Holidays, but we flew from Geneva.

AlisonMA Tue 17-Jul-12 13:10:27

There you go crimson book for Egypt and then at least you will be guarnateed some sun.

Greatnan Tue 17-Jul-12 13:01:22

I have just got back from 12 days in Sharm with juragran and there were no problems at all.

AlisonMA Tue 17-Jul-12 12:55:30

crimson Egypt is fine as long as you don't go to Cairo or Sharm, further south there are places where there is no trouble at all. We went last year and had a great time.

gracesmum Tue 17-Jul-12 12:19:14

A friend's dog (fortunately a big one) once brushed an electric fence with her tail. She leapt about 6 feet in the air and took off over the horizon, fortunately returning home eventually very sorry for herself.

crimson Tue 17-Jul-12 12:13:48

I haven't been abroad for years but the last time I was in Cyprus, even though the heat was well nigh unbearable I realised after just a couple of days that I felt ten years younger. For that reason I'm determined to go away for 2 weeks later in the year to get some sun, although worried that I might end up somewhere that isn't hot [it happened one year when we went to Kefalonia]. I even thought about going to Egypt before things started to get a bit dodgy there [well, more dodgy than usual].

BurgundyGran Tue 17-Jul-12 11:12:12

I really, really, really want some warm weather so my joints start to feel at least a bit better. I often thought it was a myth that arthritis was worse in cold, damp weather but now I know it is true. We have had some fairly warm days but many more cool, wet ones. I take to bed with heat pads, hot water bottles to feel better.

I told my husband yesterday, OK we have moved to mid France but I want to move south for the warmth! Yesterday started like today, cool but by the afternoon it was 22° today the sun is out but no heat with it. I feel so depressed whether that is SAD or just fed up with the pain I don't know. What I do know is I am not happy with my daughter saying we need more rain as she needs to collect Burgundy snails and they only appear after a downpour. Dearest daughter, damn the snails I need warmth for my poor old bones!

Greatnan Mon 16-Jul-12 18:19:50

I have had a few quite nasty jolts from fences - certainly not what I would describe as a tickle! There are usually plastic handles somewhere along the wire which you can use to unhook it and pass through, but the terrain today was too difficult for me to follow the wire.
I am a lot less adventurous than I used to be, simply because my daughter got really concerned when I told her about having to dig in my poles to stop myself sliding down a 20' drop when walking on wet leaves or scree and having to drag myself back up the slope on hands and knees. I wasn't in any danger today, other than a few scratches from the branches and wet feet from the boggy bits! She got so worried she decided she needed me in New Zealand so she can keep an eye on me.

Silverbirch Mon 16-Jul-12 18:11:18

Thanks JessM

JessM Mon 16-Jul-12 16:39:51

Well done! GN. Sounds fun.
It is true that electric fences do no harm - just a little jolt. When DS 1 was about 10 and DS2 was 3 we lived in a residential school where they had ponies - and an electric fence. So little one used to tag along with bigger boys in school grounds. Discovered that big brother was encouraging little brother to hold the electric fence! And little brother's comment was that it tickled!
At around the same time I was once trying to change a light bulb in poor light. I was groping around, trying to find the right place in the fitting.
The 3 year old climbed on the bed muttering "there's not much light in here" and turned the switch on. I did not think *that" tickled.

nanaej Mon 16-Jul-12 16:31:27

greatnan grin what an adventure!