gracesmum - lots of jolly wishes for a happy day. I hope that OH stays well for the event. We agonised for weeks last year about OH being able to cope with the wedding and especially the speech, but come the day it was a triumph and we need not have worried. He had to hide away and rest at one point, but that was fine - he made it through all the important bits. I am sure it will all come right for you - just enjoy it all and make the most of it - if something is not perfect it is not the end of the world - relish the good bits - I am sure there will be lots of them!
Today I have been........trying to help and support my DD while her dear wee son of 3 years had the mega-ist and longest of all tantrums - I have never seen anything like it - he was quite beside himself and very frightened by his own loss of control. She handled it very well and I was very proud indeed of her. Poor wee chap has had a very difficult time - his Mum was ill for many months last year and he was shunted around a bit (always to people who love him dearly); he has a new baby in the family; his Dad has been away all summer and DD has been doing her utmost to meet everyone's needs on virtually no sleep; and he has a bit of a tummy bug. So we will forgive the dear wee chap - I told him that however much he is sad about it all, he must remember that everyone always loves him. It was quite a spectacle mind!! - I feel quite exhausted.