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Anne58 Sat 22-Sept-12 20:58:48

Evening all, not sure if this has been done before, or that there may be a similar thread, but here we go;

1) Supermarkets who make their parking spaces just that little bit too small to get ones trolley between cars, meaning that one has to wheel the trolley around and approach from the rear.

2) Bloody silly use of "yourself" or "myself" when either "you" or "me" would be fine. (recent example in a letter, "If you have any queries, do please feel free to get in touch with myself" Aaaaaarrrrgh!

Ana Sun 23-Sept-12 18:28:58

That must be really annoying, Ella! I'd be tempted to report it as an abandoned car....although I suppose if the road tax disc is up to date there's not much they can do sad.

feetlebaum Sun 23-Sept-12 18:40:24

People who leave out the third stop in M.O.T. or B.B.C.

Petty? Yes, so what? On cyclists - we got a lot of mamils round here at the weekends (Middle Aged Men In Lycra) - and sometimes they get stuck behind horse-drawn vehicles -- talk about irritated! Quite amusing...

NfkDumpling Sun 23-Sept-12 19:29:43

Oh, poor you Feetle not the wobbly buttock brigade! Can't stand them - peddling like fury at a speed slower than walking. I really think there should be Lycra police making them wear shorts over the top until they can pass the wobble free test - and learn to change gear! (Love the name Mamils)

And Bags before you say anything. I do ride a bike! Got a three speed and a basket and a stand. But no Lycra!

bookdreamer Sun 23-Sept-12 19:40:03

People who say "ah, bless" and instead of please hold on or just a moment say " bear with me"

Littlenellie Sun 23-Sept-12 19:47:11

bookdreamer blush

Bags Sun 23-Sept-12 20:26:04

feetle, grin. Yes, I can imagine!

nfk, I never did lycra either. My bike(s) (two got mashed by cars; one got stolen) were just for getting from A to B not terribly fast. Faster, though, than having to walk to a bus-stop, wait, get jolted for five miles, etc. More fun too. But I did find myself categorising drivers as bike-haters or not depending on their behaviour. Most were not, of course.

Friends of mine who do family cycle rides over two weeks – camping overnight wherever they are (in Scotland it's allowed) around the highlands and islands with their kids (youngest just eight) – get a bit pissed off with the snootiness of the lycra squad too. So yeah, I understand some of the annoyance.

Nanadogsbody Sun 23-Sept-12 22:55:50

Big kids in trolleys in supermarkets.

Faye Mon 24-Sept-12 04:20:04

People who take the scenic route in a conversation.

feetlebaum I prefer no full stops after letters, such as the BBC or MOT.

annodomini I am with you, callers who repeat my name in a telephone conversation while they try to sell me something. It is not friendly and is quite irritating, wonder why they haven't figured that out yet.

Bags Mon 24-Sept-12 07:45:02

faye, smile

Bags Mon 24-Sept-12 07:55:29

Oops! Wrong thread! It was meant to be a smile about the good blog. Oh well, never mind. You get the idea, faye, no doubt! grin

petallus Mon 24-Sept-12 08:04:10

Back to cyclists: getting stuck behind some lusty young man whilst in my car and being unable to avoid the view of his brawny thighs as they pump up and down, muscles rippling. Sometimes it is miles before I manage to overtake. So annoying!

Littlenellie Mon 24-Sept-12 08:10:54

petallus your description is so enticing,I will change places with you,I would take miles to overtake as well.....would make an old lady very happy grin

Bags Mon 24-Sept-12 08:14:56

nellie, grin

petallus, yes, impatience is annoying hmm

Faye Mon 24-Sept-12 08:34:22

I did baggy. smile

annodomini Mon 24-Sept-12 08:54:21

Politicians who say 'Let me be very clear about this...' and proceed to obscure the issue even further.

absentgrana Mon 24-Sept-12 08:57:24

Political apologies which somehow manage to include being sorry "for what happened" rather than sorry for "what I did/said". And those political apologies where someone is sorry "if anyone was offended/misunderstood".

glitabo Mon 24-Sept-12 09:10:34

absent when I was working my boss told me that the way to make an apology is to say I am sorry if that is your understanding of the situation thereby still leaving the responsibility with the person who had been offended.

absentgrana Mon 24-Sept-12 09:12:22

glitabo Did you work for an MP?

glitabo Mon 24-Sept-12 09:14:24

No

absentgrana Mon 24-Sept-12 09:17:48

glitabo Phew. That's a relief. grin

annodomini Mon 24-Sept-12 09:28:04

petallus, nellie, grin.

Lilygran Mon 24-Sept-12 10:43:20

The whole thing about 'something happened' rather than 'I did it'. It may only be a verbal habit but I think it is avoiding responsibility.

Bags Mon 24-Sept-12 11:41:16

Agreed. But sometimes it's just holding fire until it is known without doubt who needs to take responsibility. There is a place, and a need, for that in certain circumstances, but I think that perhaps it is overused.

petallus Mon 24-Sept-12 11:46:27

Eh Bags. I didn't mention impatience!

Bags Mon 24-Sept-12 12:02:30

Sorry, pet, I assumed that the annoyance you mentioned was a kind of impatience. Forgive me for getting it wrong.