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Bags Wed 12-Dec-12 10:53:39

I've done it! I've driven on white stuff. It has taken me nearly three years to summon up the courage even when I know our current car can do it. Didn't even need the "diff locks" engaged (or is it unengaged?) either. Phew.

The fear
Steep hill
Road
Sea wall
Cold water

Three years ago one wheel hit an ice patch on a bend and, even on the level, the car somersaulted over the sea wall, broke a wheel axle and a few other things but, fortunately, not people. As luck would have it, the tide was out.

Nightmares for DD. Ongoing fear for me.

It's good to be recovering.

janeainsworth Wed 12-Dec-12 11:00:33

Well done Bags, I hope your recovery continues.smile
I broke my wrist 10 years ago falling on ice, and although nothing like as awful as your experience, I still am very fearful of icy roads and pavements.

grannyactivist Wed 12-Dec-12 11:02:09

Bags you have my greatest respect.
My only car crash resulted in my car being a write off during a blizzard in 1996; I have never driven on snow since then.

jeni Wed 12-Dec-12 11:05:49

I haven't driven on snow for the last 30odd years. When I first moved down here I was told we didn't have snow! HaHa! The first winter the town was cut off and my Saab engine froze up!

soop Wed 12-Dec-12 11:27:51

Well done Bags High five!

Butty Wed 12-Dec-12 11:28:01

Bravo! smile

annodomini Wed 12-Dec-12 11:34:08

In the notoriously prolonged big freeze of 1962-63, I was doing my Dip Ed in Edinburgh and my youngest sister was in sixth form there. We were allowed to take the family mini to the station and, with its then innovative front-wheel drive, it was one of the few cars that would take the hard-packed frozen snow on the Station Brae. That was good experience for both of us - she had only recently passed her test and, having spent four years at University, I'd not done a lot of driving. The car survived.

Barrow Wed 12-Dec-12 11:35:04

Well done! Have to admit my biggest fear is driving on icy/snow roads. I live at the top of a country lane and although the main road through the village does get cleared the lane doesn't. My DH used to clear the whole lane (and an elderly neighbours path) but I don't know if any of my neighbours will now take it on!

vampirequeen Wed 12-Dec-12 12:09:37

Well done. It took a great effort and you succeeded x

yogagran Wed 12-Dec-12 12:16:10

Woo hoo - well done Bags

Movedalot Wed 12-Dec-12 12:17:25

Well done you! smile. I know how hard it can be to overcome such a fear. Give yourself a big pat on the back

whenim64 Wed 12-Dec-12 12:48:41

Respect Bags! Having slid across two side streets on snow and ice, I can only guess how you have been dealing with the experience of somersaulting in your car. Scary! flowers

flowerfriend Wed 12-Dec-12 12:54:23

Hats off to you Bags.

Ariadne Wed 12-Dec-12 13:05:25

Well done, Bags! It terrifies me after a couple of horrid experiences on the M2..

kittylester Wed 12-Dec-12 13:21:20

Well done bags a hurdle overcome!

I once slid sideways down a steep slope only to see a lorry doing the same thing from the opposite direction. Luckily we both stopped just short of each other. I had no option but to drive again as I had to pick the children up later along the same road but I never enjoyed that drive again even in summer sun.

Anne58 Wed 12-Dec-12 13:22:03

Well done that woman!

harrigran Wed 12-Dec-12 15:53:45

Phew, braver than I am flowers

FlicketyB Wed 12-Dec-12 17:21:00

Congratulations, a result for the grannies!! flowers

baubles Wed 12-Dec-12 17:33:37

That's terrific! Well done you smile

Bags Wed 12-Dec-12 17:41:27

Thank you, everyone! It has snowed a little since then and I have to go out to Cubs this evening. All together now: Fingers Crossed!! [I'll-be-fine emoticon] [makingprogress emoticon] [no, really, I can do this] etc.

annodomini Wed 12-Dec-12 17:44:17

Snowgran, Bags. Also Snowgran, Greatnan as she has posted her arrival at granjura's on Facebook.

POGS Wed 12-Dec-12 19:57:48

Well done Bags.

Did you manage to get into 2nd gear, especially with your eyes shut!. grin

Bags Wed 12-Dec-12 21:42:19

Back home successfully, dead chuffed. Nothing but having got to a time when I was ready made me do this, which is pleasing. I didn't want to have to cope with such a 'first' in an emergency – ambulances, unless they are four wheel drive, can't get up to our house - too much heavy equipment weighing them down; we know this from when DH's mum needed some treatment - the paramedics had to walk up and leave the ambulance at the bottom.

We made shelters at Cubs out of cardboard boxes and old sacks, and then played mad games involving spoons.

Thank you again for the encouragement. Gransnet is Grrrreat! grin

Greatnan Wed 12-Dec-12 21:48:16

Bags - well done. I googled ' how to drive on snow and ice' and got some good tips but it sounds as if you don't need them now you have found your confidence.

Ella46 Wed 12-Dec-12 21:48:58

Yes! Well done Bags, snow and ice can be very daunting even if you haven't had a nasty experience. Hope dd is happier too!