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Bags Wed 12-Dec-12 10:53:39

I've done it! I've driven on white stuff. It has taken me nearly three years to summon up the courage even when I know our current car can do it. Didn't even need the "diff locks" engaged (or is it unengaged?) either. Phew.

The fear
Steep hill
Road
Sea wall
Cold water

Three years ago one wheel hit an ice patch on a bend and, even on the level, the car somersaulted over the sea wall, broke a wheel axle and a few other things but, fortunately, not people. As luck would have it, the tide was out.

Nightmares for DD. Ongoing fear for me.

It's good to be recovering.

grannyactivist Wed 12-Dec-12 21:55:04

Bags well done you! It's a lovely feeling to have subdued that kind of fear (won't say conquered because in my experience that takes some time). Glad you're home safe and well. smile

Nelliemoser Wed 12-Dec-12 23:32:37

Bags Well done to get over that one. I got used to driving to work on ice and snow in the winters of 09/10 and 10/11. 20 miles an hour in 2nd gear, no sudden movements. I am increasingly scared of walking on icy pavements now though.

Chris1603 Thu 13-Dec-12 22:58:59

Well done Bags I am impressed

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Jodi Fri 14-Dec-12 13:52:06

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Grannyeggs Fri 14-Dec-12 14:25:38

Well done Bags, I admire you as I am not so brave, but not tested so far this year.

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glassortwo Sat 15-Dec-12 07:37:25

Done

HildaW Sun 16-Dec-12 14:43:50

My husband used to do a lot of driving before he 'semi' retired and quite a few years ago asked for a day of skid pan training as a birthday present. He had great fun and its been very useful and reassuring to know that he's confident on icy or wet roads.....I dont need to drive much but his advice has given me confidence too.

Bags Sun 16-Dec-12 15:09:59

That has given me an idea, hilda. I think I might ask for such a present some time.