You did not explain j08 and , no, it's certainly not behind me because I am still very angry about being vilified in the way I have been. You repeatedly accused me of being contemptible, horrible, etc. I appreciate that Boston may not have been in the forefront of your mind when you posted your "joke" but that was no excuse for then accusing me of being to blame for your failure of awareness and decency – the latter being a subject that is, apparently, dear to your heart.