I love holidays now I am on my own - when the children were young we could afford only self catering, mostly in caravans in Wales, Cornwall or Scotland. My dear ex-husband would be very happy fishing all day, or sailing his boat, whilst I was left to entertain the girls and do all the domestic chores I did at home, but without the usual appliances. He often insisted that we all go along with him (doing what he wanted, of course) and I remember sitting under raincoats on Chesil beach while he fished. No toilets, and two young children. Just one of the reasons why he is an ex!
I have taken my sister on holiday ever year for about 30 years and whilst I love her dearly, it is quite a relief not to have to worry about her. She is rather intolerant, and I was always tense in case somebody smoked near her, or children ran around in the restaurant, or the accommodation was not to her liking. The fact that I paid for everything made no difference! This year, I am taking her on a cruise on the River Moselle and I will be keeping my fingers crossed that she likes it.