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Carol - Updates

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Sat 02-Nov-13 22:28:30

Hi all

The original thread has become too long and unwieldy so we're trying to streamline all the information to make it easier for everyone to keep up with what's going on.

There are two other threads for support and suggestions.

Please can you leave this thread free for those who have firm updates and links? Thanks so much. flowers

Bez Thu 14-Nov-13 19:41:42

Hopefully HQ will be able to organise a simple way of people donating.x x x

Elegran Thu 14-Nov-13 17:41:49

A living memorial - lovely.

Marelli Thu 14-Nov-13 17:37:12

I'm happy to go along with anything that is decided. To have a clutch of trees would be a lovely memorial for Carol.

hummingbird Thu 14-Nov-13 14:20:24

I think it will be lovely to do something in memory of Greatnan. A bench sounds wonderful, although it would also be appropriate if any money collected could go to the family. The costs must have been huge.

Bez Thu 14-Nov-13 14:09:52

As the costs to the family were so great could the fund not also repay some of these costs to them? I certainly would find that use very acceptable as well as the lovely idea of the trees and bench.

bikergran Thu 14-Nov-13 14:02:15

think that is a lovely idea.

granjura Thu 14-Nov-13 12:57:07

I am sure others from the other Forums Carol contributed to would also like to join. A small group of trees and a great bench would just what she would have wanted, and I am sure, her daughter and family too. Will discuss with her next week- as she needs to rest now. If Gransnet can find a way to facilitate payments to the fund, that would be great (bearing in mind many of us live abroad, in France and Switzerland).

granjura Thu 14-Nov-13 12:54:27

A small wood would be even better. I also know F intends to put a bench up there, in memory of Carol. So it would be wonderful if we could cover the cost. The expenses for F and 2 grandsons from UK were huge, and can't be recovered from succession.

Aka Thu 14-Nov-13 12:52:41

flowering cherries in NZ

JessM Thu 14-Nov-13 12:25:01

the two main NZ species that I can think of, that are flowering natives are:

www.anntonnursery.co.nz/Sophora-Microphylla.html

and

www.123rf.com/photo_18687663_flowers-on-a-pohutukawa-tree-metrosideros-excelsa--flowering-on-the-west-coast-new-zealand.html

I think both of these would be coming into bloom about now, as it is spring.
The yellow one is small tree and the pohutukawa grows into a magnificent big evergreen.

Nelliemoser Thu 14-Nov-13 12:17:33

My thoughts too Galen
One climate suitable tree really shouldn't cost that much. There are a whole lot of good varieties coming in at about £40 in uk prices.

If they have suitable species in NZ I would not think they would be relatively much more expensive.

www.ornamental-trees.co.uk/ornamental-trees-c18/flowering-cherry-trees-prunus-trees-c34

annodomini Thu 14-Nov-13 12:13:40

There's a faction in New Zealand that objects to non-indigenous trees. A sort of arboreal nationalism. Perhaps there is an indigenous tree that would be appropriate. When Fiona has been back home a few weeks, we could ask her.

Galen Thu 14-Nov-13 11:52:25

I suspect that donations might equip a small park.

JessM Thu 14-Nov-13 11:49:26

Granjura we would need to check that a flowering cherry is a good option in that part of NZ as the climate is a bit different to the UK. Lots of different microclimates depending on exact location. Something that flourishes in the town park in Nelson could curl up it toes a half a mile up the hill in the wind on poor soil. Maybe family could take some advice and have input - a tree that suits their location and does not need too much TLC to settle it in.

Tegan Thu 14-Nov-13 11:17:56

Yes please. I'm rubbish at paypal stuff but could send a cheque to someone who can.

granjura Thu 14-Nov-13 11:13:46

Can Gransnet admin please suggest a way to facilitate this, please?

Elegran Thu 14-Nov-13 10:55:32

That sounds good. It will last longer than cut flowers.

merlotgran Thu 14-Nov-13 10:37:24

Lovely idea, granjura.

Tegan Thu 14-Nov-13 10:32:37

That would be lovely.

shysal Thu 14-Nov-13 10:31:09

I'm up for that, let us know how to contribute.

granjura Thu 14-Nov-13 10:30:01

She loved flowering cherries- so perhaps a more fitting tribute would be to pay for the cost of planting a really nice one.

Tegan Thu 14-Nov-13 10:24:29

Could we somehow arrange for a bunch of flowers to be put on her final resting place, with a card saying 'from your friends at gransnet'? Nothing expensive or elaborate [I've even put a single rose on a grave just to show I cared and remembered].

tanith Thu 14-Nov-13 10:20:27

A fitting place for Greatnan and no mistake.. near her beloved family keeping watch over them.

glassortwo Thu 14-Nov-13 10:06:03

Perfect resting place overlooking the family home, thank you for letting us know granjura

annodomini Thu 14-Nov-13 10:01:53

Thank you for telling us that, granjura.