Withany's bridge

A continuing blog could go here

I'm still trying to work out which of the forum guidelines was broken by Caz's deleted post.

Seems well put to me.

Oh, it's such a pain in the bum when you get one deleted and you can't remember wtf you said.

You are very caring Kat.

I expect you treat all the younger mums on Mumsnet in just the same way.

Nothing more from Withany? I hope she does try writing a blog and if you are reading this Withany - look forward to hearing how things turn out.

I have no idea what has been said and what has been deleted but what I can say is that I have come across more than a handful of so called professionals whom I wouldn't trust with a jigsaw puzzle let alone anyone suffering a major trauma in their lives. Professional standards of practice and ethics for a particular field are agreed and maintained through professional associations and indicative of a degree held in that particular field. I sometimes feel, rightly or wrongly, that many who earn their living in a particular field consider themselves professionals. The moral and ethical obligations imposed on professionals generally results in a very high standard of ethics and consequently a high standard of care and diligence in whatever field they may be practicing in.

PS ????

Soutra she only seems to post in the mornings !

ps - What?

Where has this come from ps?

Likewise ??? I can see no logic in what you are saying. What is your complaint then?

Wrong thread, I would think.

Totally and utterly

Mind you, there could have been something said about professionals in one of these, very lengthy, posts. Maybe ps is a more dedicated reader than some of us.

Sorry ladies, forgive me, it was just an opinion in response to a previous posting regarding professionals opinions if I remember correctly. I certainly have no complaint, far from it and yes I would like to think I am a dedicated reader. It is the least I could do if I am to express an opinion.
Anyway, Dolphins on BBC followed by Silent Witness beckon.

I'm sure you are forgiven and nice to see you taking a bit more active part in the forum these days ps

withany I think I may be repeating a post that some one may have mentioned already and without reading all the posts again I may be wrong...but do think twice what you post in any forums, as to what your intending to do, and maybe not give too much information away(perhaps to the "otherside"), as you just never know who is reading the posts and If I am right posts on most forums can be picked up and read else ware (google etc etc) I posted on motorcycle forum a few years ago and if I google my GN name it comes up with me waffling on! "just a thought! as you did mention that you hadn't posted on forums before so I'm not sure if you are aware of these things, you can always "private message as well" keep building that bridge, plenty of motar around here to support you

What a shame. I came on to see how Withany is getting on today, only to find that she seems to have abandoned the thread and instead there is a couple of pages of mainly inconsequential drivel, smilies and grins. After Withany's brave and resolute initial post - which should be compulsory reading for anyone before they add their t'uppence ha'penny worth - her inspirational bridge has been undermined. I don't even feel able to encourage her to post again as I am afraid the same thing could happen again.

Hi, I haven't deserted the GNs or my bridge, but my thread seemed to be full of squabbling, I gave that up when I left infant school and have no time for it.
Had eyes tested today, yes New specs pick them up next week. Had to use car with missing hand brake button, solution to pressing spindle thing button was on...I wore a gardening glove, worked a treat.

Hubby not happy, such a shame roll on next week solicitor will get things organised ready for SBs return.
I am putting the clothes he left into black bin bags, toying with the idea of putting a bit of itching powder in his boxers, that should make him dance!
Hopefully to my tune for a change.

No lecture from me because i think you 've come a long way and are doing well but I d feel a lot happier if you weren't phoning or emailing him I think every time you do you send a message 'I need contact with you' why can't you let it all go and let him stew All correspondence through a solicitor only

Ooooh, Withany, I like that. I like that a lot!

(The itching powder that is)

withany you are a lesson to us all. So pleased to read your upbeat posting and feel an idiot in that I didn't think of the bin bags. I bought wardrobe cartons and tissue to neatly pack my ex's clothes for her to collect. As for the itching powder - priceless, an absolute Gem. Anthrax would have done me! Keep up the spirits, you come across as being a fighter and do keep us informed. Very best wishes.

Hi Withany - I want to write that I'm so glad that you're keeping your pecker up, and in spite of the little voice in my head saying 'Titter ye not' in a Frankie Howard voice, I'm still going to say it!!
(Americans please click on the blue link - I am NOT being rude)