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junie1 Sat 15-Feb-14 17:35:37

Hi
My mum is 89, she has been through a difficult time, for about 6 months.
We are caring for her as best we can, but we think she needs people of her own age for company and chat. Please if anyone knows anywhere we can take her to meet new friends, It would be a great help.

We just want to see her happy again.

Many Thanks
Junie1

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 15-Feb-14 17:54:38

Could these people help Royal Voluntary service

Or perhaps your local branch of Age Uk.

flowers for being caring smile

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 15-Feb-14 17:57:09

a better link

Flowerofthewest Sat 15-Feb-14 17:58:07

I suppose it depend where you live and what her interests are. I used to work with a group of elderly people in a day centre where many different activities were available ie craft, poetry, reminiscence groups etc. Maybe the local health centre or her GP could advise of something local.

whitewave Sat 15-Feb-14 19:20:23

My mother of 95 would in her poetic words "wish me up the cats ass!" if I suggested she spent time with people her own age. She is too frail now to go far but we used to go to the theatre, out for lunch, National Trust, and London to perhaps the V&A if there something worth seeing

junie1 Sat 15-Feb-14 21:52:55

Thanks all so much

Will look at all your suggestions, we are in the Cheshire area

Junie

Aka Sat 15-Feb-14 22:53:40

Does she want to meet other people? Some do, some don't.

Is it that you, understandably, need a little respite time yourself?

Day centres are great if she likes being with others.

Flowerofthewest Sat 15-Feb-14 23:21:01

What about the cinema, I know ours does a 'Silver Screen' on a weekday morning for retired people. Cheaper and free coffee or whatever drink you like.

Bingo! she may just like to atmosphere

Humbertbear Sun 16-Feb-14 07:44:31

Do you have a local Abbeyfield Home nearby? I believe they welcome non-residents in for lunches and activities.
Does the local church have a group? Also maybe she would like to go to U3A. Out local branch has a monthly lecture on a variety of topics and a film group where they watch DVDs.

Aka Sun 16-Feb-14 07:57:01

Do they still have tea dances?

ninathenana Sun 16-Feb-14 10:51:11

Have you checked the notice boards of your local library? We have the usual AgeUK and day care here but we also have a local volunteer run group for over 50's they have coffee mornings, day trips, film afternoons etc.

junie1 Wed 19-Feb-14 22:20:16

Mum would love a tea dance

Hope I can find one to take her to.

Not really thought about me , just want to
See her chatting with others near her own age.

Thanks to all of you

Junie

grannyactivist Wed 19-Feb-14 22:35:51

Are you near Warrington?
www.ageuk.org.uk/midmersey/our-services/warrington-tea-dances/

annodomini Wed 19-Feb-14 22:46:13

Tea Dances at Stockport Town Hall, if you are anywhere in the vicinity.

cathybee Tue 25-Feb-14 22:34:40

Junie you sound like a great daughter, your Mum is very lucky.

I used to be a volunteer at Age Concern and they have get together's, she might like that.

junie1 Thu 27-Feb-14 12:05:49

Thanks all for your help
Cathybee, will try and find a get together for mum at age UK

Junie