A friend of a friend lives quite near me,so I have seen her on social occasions but never been close.She is probably everything I am not, very attractive,fashionable and artistic.A few weeks ago her S.O.was diagnosed with a terminal illness and died very soon after.I went to see her and as she is probably quite lonely she has started inviting me for coffee,sometimes in the evening for a glass of wine and we have become friendly.She called in yesterday and stood by the mirror flicking through her blonde locks and said "I must take myself in hand,I look terrible" and glancing at me said" you always look so neat and tidy".
I really didn't know how to react,do these things happen to others?
Am I perhaps being too sensitive?