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What age did you become a grandparent?

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Katek Sun 14-Jun-15 17:56:32

Following on from another thread where mammatj(?) said she would only be 47 when she becomes a grandmother, I just wondered what age we all were when our first dgc was born. I was 56

Leticia Tue 16-Jun-15 05:26:31

No wonder I am likely to be getting on- I had my own toddler at 43yrs! My family do things late and we have 3 generations where many have 5.

Slpotts53 Tue 16-Jun-15 08:05:13

61 and am lucky enough to have two born within 5 weeks of each other. A double blessing!

Slpotts53 Tue 16-Jun-15 08:06:44

At the age of 61 I was lucky enough to have two grandchildren born within 5weeks of each other. What a joy and blessing they are!

Elayne Tue 16-Jun-15 13:05:11

I ws 43

Keepcalmandcarryon Tue 16-Jun-15 13:44:25

I and hubby 62 and 66. The age is irrelevant. my offspring met and married a bit later just like us. The main thing is they and our grandchildren are deeply loved and wanted. The grandchildren are keeping us young, all five of them!

Judthepud2 Tue 16-Jun-15 21:56:54

Thanks for the flowers Lilygran . much appreciated. Such a bitter sweet time it was.

TwiceAsNice Tue 16-Jun-15 23:07:31

I was 55 I had my first child at just gone 22 so could have been a grandmother earlier technically but my daughter didn't oblige until she was 33. I was so happy when she told me I'd been desperate to have grandchildren then at ther 12 week scan they said she was having twins! Icing on the cake!

Nanacat13 Wed 17-Jun-15 08:37:11

I was 58 when first GD born - in Hong Kong! (Am now 63). Thank goodness my son is now working in UK so I can see my darling GD and darling GS much more often. And this week my younger son and his wife presented me with another gorgeous GD, whom I met yesterday for the first time. I feel extremely blessed as several of my friends have no grandchildren at all and would have loved them.

Marty Wed 17-Jun-15 11:45:23

I will be 65 when my first grandchild is born. And like Grannyknot had just about given up. My daughter will be 39 when she has our first grandchild. We are all very excited - for both sides of the family it will be a first. My daughters MiL will be 71 I think.

jeanie99 Thu 18-Jun-15 03:25:23

I was 69 when our first grandson was born.

purplehairstreak Fri 19-Jun-15 10:28:12

Classic Beatles song age - 64. And I learned I'd become a grandma for the first time while I was up on the Fourth Plinth in Trafalgar Square, taking part in Anthony Gormley's living sculpture project, "One and Other". A truly memorable day!

suzanne58 Fri 19-Jun-15 14:30:35

40

TriciaF Fri 19-Jun-15 14:42:39

I was 60 when our step-grand daughter was born, and for my own first grandchild 6 years later, 66.
Our 2nd son and his wife can't have children, but moved to India and are adopting 4 gorgeous Indian chidren, oldest now 13. I don't see enough of them though.

SusieB50 Sat 20-Jun-15 16:04:23

I was 61 - never thought my two children would ever get round to having families . Then my son and daughter -in -law had twins at 37 and my daughter of 40 and son- in -law had a girl all within a year! We live fairly close by so it's full on - less so now as the twins are five and in school . But those first couple of years were exhausting. !

oldperson Sat 20-Jun-15 20:31:45

I was 55 when first GS was born, I now have 9 grandchildren the last three being born within 8 weeks and they will be 8 this year. The oldest has just turned 19 and is off to uni.

Worlass Sat 20-Jun-15 21:03:21

I was 46 when oldest granddaughter born, 54 when youngest born. Have 6 grandkids altogether.

Mildred Sat 20-Jun-15 21:55:37

65, rather good planning by my daughter my friends think but I did not retire until I was 67

bonji Mon 22-Jun-15 21:06:12

I was 67 and hubby nearly 69 when a very special gs arrived. Children just haven't happened for daughter no. 1 and her husband and daughter no. 2 was very involved with her career and other interests. This gs will probably be our only gc so is indeed very special but it would be so good not to live a 3 hour drive away.

annodomini Mon 22-Jun-15 21:39:51

I was 51 when my GD1 arrived and still working full time. My son had a relationship with a slightly older girl who already had two children. The relationship didn't last but I was able to keep contact with my GD and watch her growing up, through her schooldays and university. She used to invade my kitchen at weekends, to bake cakes and cookies which she researched on line on my computer. She is now living 'down south' with her dad, stepmother and two half siblings. I see them as often as I can. I'm so grateful that I had the opportunity to see one of my GC growing up whereas I live too far from the other four.