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What age did you become a grandparent?

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Katek Sun 14-Jun-15 17:56:32

Following on from another thread where mammatj(?) said she would only be 47 when she becomes a grandmother, I just wondered what age we all were when our first dgc was born. I was 56

Ana Sun 14-Jun-15 18:01:19

I was 55

whitewave Sun 14-Jun-15 18:02:18

I was 54

tanith Sun 14-Jun-15 18:11:21

I was 39 my eldest grandson is almost 28 , we girls started young in my family grin

merlotgran Sun 14-Jun-15 18:23:02

I was 50

hildajenniJ Sun 14-Jun-15 18:28:26

I was 55 when my DGD was born. I was a late starter and didn't have my DD until I was 31, and she was my first child!

loopylou Sun 14-Jun-15 18:30:04

59 when DGS born, oldest so far on this thread grin

AshTree Sun 14-Jun-15 18:33:24

I was 56. And then I had a wait of 7 years till the next one came along. And now two years later my third grandchild is about to be born. I sometimes wish it had happened when I was younger and in better health, but rather it happened late than not at all!

FarNorth Sun 14-Jun-15 18:35:41

61, I was never someone who longed for a GC but, of course, now I have a DGD I am besotted.

granjura Sun 14-Jun-15 18:37:21

55 too

Falconbird Sun 14-Jun-15 18:37:39

loopylou - I think I'm the oldest so far. I was 61 when first grandchild came along. smile

Falconbird Sun 14-Jun-15 18:41:35

Just seen FarNorth's post - we were both 61.

Anyone older than that? I started early at 23 but my son was in his late thirties when his first child was born.

tanith Sun 14-Jun-15 18:42:23

I wasn't happy at the time my first DGS was born but with hindsight we've (all 8 of them) had the best of times while I was youngish and fit and healthy, we've been able to have lots of holidays together and I've been able to have many enjoyable experiences with them over the years and now I'll be able to enjoy seeing the next generation of GGC arrive the first of which is due next month.

kittylester Sun 14-Jun-15 18:45:47

58. I had my first child aged 22 so should have had my first DGC much sooner if they'd sorted themselves out!

annsixty Sun 14-Jun-15 18:49:29

I also was 61 and 73 when the 6th and last one was born, which is too old I feel.

whitewave Sun 14-Jun-15 18:49:41

Had my first child at 26

Margsus Sun 14-Jun-15 18:55:34

I became a grandma for the first time last year at 65

Bellanonna Sun 14-Jun-15 18:56:38

71 ! Now have 3 of them.

J52 Sun 14-Jun-15 19:01:30

58 had my first DS at 30, but DS2 born when I was 33 decided to become a father at 25. Now both sons have lovely little girls, the ages all seem to have been good. x

MammaTJ Sun 14-Jun-15 19:01:58

I will actually be 48 by the time baby is born.

I was 27 when I had my first child, 39 when I had my last, so could be described as a late developer!

pinkprincess Sun 14-Jun-15 19:04:24

I was 47

Last year I became a great grandmother at 70.

I was old for my family traits though, two of my sisters were grandmothers at 39 and 43, and one of them became a great grandmother at 60.

Katek Sun 14-Jun-15 19:05:40

Gosh.....what a wide range, from 39-71! Youngest I have known in RL was 36. I have two little DGS of just 2 and 4 months old now in my 60's and wish DS/DIL had had them sooner. It wasn't to be however, and I'm just so grateful they managed to have them. I can still kick a ball-just don't ask me to run for it!

loopylou Sun 14-Jun-15 19:08:48

A childhood friend's mother was 38 when became a GM, I thought that was pretty young!

Mishap Sun 14-Jun-15 19:09:23

I was 54 - and we now have 7 of them!

FlicketyB Sun 14-Jun-15 19:13:31

63