Merlogran, you've done well not to have heard of her. I'm a closet daily mail reader (not in the closet now!). That paper has had endless photographs, Articles about when/where they met, a focus on her dual heritage background, reference to her mother's ethnicity and dreadlocks. I don't read the articles, just the headings as I scroll down the page. The cat was well out of the bag by the time Harry made his statement. I'd like to see all of us, including those in public life, shown more respect and privacy by the media. I expect some potentially good mp's for example, avoid it because they and their loved ones would have no,privacy, does anyone really believe if Harry tried to leave his family responsibilities behind, he'd be left in peace