IMHO too many children these days are turned into little princes and princesses and behave accordingly (sorry, no disrespect to the real princes and princesses). You've only got to go into a supermarket or the doctor's waiting room to witness the sort of behaviour amongst kids that we, and certainly not OUR parents, would have put up with. Personally, I think a lot of it is down to both parents working so that when they ARE able to be with their children they over-compensate with treats and by excusing bad behaviour rather than dealing with it. I know, I know, we women fought to have jobs and families and to be equal, and quite right too, but it seems the pendulum has swung too far. It's been said before, and many times on GN, that kids are made the centre of attention, they are taken out, amused and entertained all the time and so are unable to amuse themselves or play together for more than five minutes. I know it's been said before and those with 'perfect' grandchildren will disagree with me but discipline and boundaries are good for children and too many of them just don't have that. OK - rant over. Must be the heat!