Eglantine 19 have read all the posts on this thread, and have to say completely agree with you. To me it's all about spacial awareness, whether on a plane, bus etc., my particular gripes are waiting to pay in a queue, someone behind, maybe in a hurry, stands far too close to me, I guessing here to hurry me up, or the person who parks their car over the designated space in car park so I have problems getting my self and passengers out. The latest is the dog owners who think it's fair game to allow their dogs to hurtle over the field to greet/terrorise my nervous rescue cocker spaniel, saying it's alright, they are friendly, but mine doesn't want a play date, I ask them to call off their dogs, but of course their dogs aren't trained so they aren't able to, I was told yesterday to keep my dog in if she's not sociable, my dog never approaches others, so really as I see it, it's all about what others want, lay all over you in a plane etc., with complete disregard for other people, a distinct lack of manners and social graces!