I'm grateful we were taught to live within our means and to save regularly. This means not only do we have funds if needed but we can prove we are a good financial "risk" as we don't have debt and a good track record of saving. I will not have a credit card, I refuse to pay through the nose for these things. I agree credit, or to put it correctly, debt, is offered freely but as an adult, I choose to say no. I also tefuse to get into debt for fancy cars and household goods. Good, second hand paid with cash is a better option. Most of the things people buy will end up in the landfill site sooner rather than later. We have also made sure that we have insurance to cover such things as unemployment, sickness or loss of goods. We spend our money wisely and enjoy it. We think about our purchases, is it going to make our lives more comfortable and easy? Sadly, too many people want instant gratification. They want things now, rather than save up for it. The Jonses have much to answer for, as do people who are irresponsible with their money. We only have one wage coming in and it's less than the "average" wage but we are debt and stress free. There is much to be said for the old fashioned way of managing your money. Sorry that so many posters have had to pay such high costs when bailing out adult children. And as for bankruptcy, well, someone has to pay for that . If you run up a debt then I do feel you are responsible and accountable. There are good places to get help and advice, interest can be "frozen" and arrangements made for you to pay back, what you borrowed, at an affordable rate. Maybe if money sense was taught in the home and at school, it would help prevent so many people suffering.nBest of luck to everyone doing their best to get out of debt.