Dear Sunseeker, I am so sorry. Christmas is a difficult time for many of us, and it has to be remembered that not everyone is having M&S Christmas – far from it, but you can’t get away from it. Many are struggling to afford it, but don’t want to let the kids down. Many have to put up with relatives they can’t stand. There never seems to be enough time during the frantic preparations beforehand to enjoy seasonal social events – it’s a big run up to nothing. Then of course there are those who have lost someone, or are apart from those they love at Christmas.
I’ve now been estranged from my daughter and grandson for 5 years – long story. I’ve tried everything (don’t get me started on Grandparents Plus), but the first Christmas, in 2013was the worst. I was working in a charity shop, and having to put up with the Chinese water torture of the Christmas songs – I think the one that finally triggered me was, “I Wish it Could be Christmas Every Day”. I had a meltdown saying, “I hate bloody Christmas”, and walked out never to come back, which was dead embarrassing. So you’re not alone.