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Eloethan Mon 09-Apr-18 23:39:07

Where is durhamjen?

grannysyb Tue 10-Apr-18 11:20:45

Well said gillybob!

Eloethan Tue 10-Apr-18 11:33:06

I was just asking about durhamjen. I didn't realise it would be used as an opportunity to have digs about various people.

I'm sorry whitewave left and, if durhamjen has left too, that's a great shame.

Day6 Tue 10-Apr-18 11:38:03

I agree with others that GN is a really good site with lots of caring and helpful posters. I haven't picked up any signals that it's a 'bad place' at the moment. confused

News and Politics is a bear pit though. However the missing posters weren't shy and retiring or meek and reticent. They could dish it out too. It's a partisan forum because people DO (because of the nature of politics) take sides.
People do have to stand their ground. I am sure the missing posters will re-group in time or come back in a different guise.

Posters come and go for all sorts of reasons and it is easy enough to avoid forums that aren't to your taste.

Anniebach Tue 10-Apr-18 11:41:31

I agree Day6

humptydumpty Tue 10-Apr-18 12:18:34

GGMK2 has a current thread on retirement properties that she started last week...

MaizieD Tue 10-Apr-18 12:20:31

But she has left, all the same humpty

Jalima1108 Tue 10-Apr-18 12:22:32

I realise I went on and on
I thought that was me when I post then remember another thing I should have said!

Jalima1108 Tue 10-Apr-18 12:23:38

GGMK2 left before though, and came back again.
Perhaps she is having a break - or looking at retirement properties?

Jalima1108 Tue 10-Apr-18 12:24:09

and she was worried about her elderly mother

Jalima1108 Tue 10-Apr-18 12:24:28

see - i did it again

Must stop doing that

Jalima1108 Tue 10-Apr-18 12:27:52

trisher! shock
No-one forces anyone to read a thread or post on it if they don't wish to join in and/or find it boring to the extent of yawning.

gillybob Tue 10-Apr-18 12:29:03

I do that too Jalima but to be fair I don’t think that’s what was meant by “going on and on” hmm

I think they’ll all be back eventually complete with new names , new links etc.

Jalima1108 Tue 10-Apr-18 12:30:46

whitewave is not receiving pms so has gone

Jalima1108 Tue 10-Apr-18 12:31:15

It's what DH calls 'going on and on' gillybob grin

Anniebach Tue 10-Apr-18 12:31:49

Oh no, not new links ?

Bathsheba Tue 10-Apr-18 12:38:13

How do you all manage to find out, so promptly, that people have left? I mean one day they were all posting and within a couple of days threads are started about them having left. They didn’t announce it did they? And there’s no members’ list to check confused

Anniebach Tue 10-Apr-18 12:40:16

ww did say she was leaving

Bathsheba Tue 10-Apr-18 14:20:27

Oh did she? I missed that. Oh well, I suppose there's loads I miss really, cos I don't read every post on every thread...

#there'smoretolifethanGN

MaizieD Tue 10-Apr-18 14:52:59

I found out, Bathsheba because durhamjen hadn't posted for a couple of days and when I tried to PM her to find out if she was OK the PMs wouldn't deliver. GnetHQ confirmed that she was no longer registered.

loopyloo Tue 10-Apr-18 15:25:05

Perhaps they were Russian diplomats who have been sent home. Is it possible?

humptydumpty Tue 10-Apr-18 15:31:24

loopy I think they do have the internet in Russia!

Bathsheba Tue 10-Apr-18 15:57:42

loopy grin

winterwhite Tue 10-Apr-18 16:22:47

This is very sad. These posters were well-informed and I enjoyed reading what they had to say. I hope they have not felt driven away. I’ve only been on GN for 6 months and have noticed the increasing bad temper on the current affairs threads. Seems that soon GN will be all games....

Baggs Tue 10-Apr-18 16:27:57

I realise I went on and on. I thought that was me when I post then remember another thing I should have said!

Yo tambien ?

Anniebach Tue 10-Apr-18 16:37:22

They would no more be driven away than ducks would bark