In my family I have always been the capable one. I have cared for everyone, including my parents. If anyone, parents, DH, DC has a problem they ring me and more often than not I find a solution. I manage our money, book holidays, sort out tradesmen etc.
And now I am tired of it. I want someone to care for me and fix things but I feel I have made a rod for my own back as nobody knows how.
Sorry to sound as if I am wallowing but not feeling so good today. I am sure it will pass.
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic