I do indeed also know how you feel. I was a SW in jy work and it seems that I have been this for my family and others for a very long time!
But a great joy at the moment is that the hospice give me a massage while OH is having his treatment - it is truly wonderful! And she says lovely things like "You need looking after too" - I grab it with both hands and lap it up!
Water Pollution -“ A National Disgrace”? A case for renationalisation?
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.