The dying of a loved one is a very difficult time for their family and friends and, of course, for the person who is dying. Someone who supports them all with kindness, a sympathetic approach and discretion can take some of the burden from their shoulders and help in a number of ways. Many people find it almost impossible to face up to the reality of impending death – their own or that of others – and have no idea how to behave or what to say, which will always vary from one individual to another, so reassurance and comfort can be invaluable. The days when most people routinely died in the own beds surrounded by their families have long gone (although they may be returning) so few have even seen a dead body, let alone seen someone die, so they are often very frightened. A knowledgeable, understanding and empathetic support can relieve such worries to a considerable extent. Those who work in hospices have training to help with these sorts of problems and stresses both for patients and their families, so similar help at home for those who want to die there rather than in a busy hospital ward would seem a very good thing.
As the youngest of my generation in a large extended family I have seen more than my fair share of deaths, some of them painfully prolonged. I don't think I would have the strength to help others through such a time, but I do admire and respect those who offer this thoughtful dedicated and loving service.