Having a bad day.

merlot, I’ve only just caught up with what’s happening, what an awful sadness to be facing. There are no easy words that will take away your pain. All I can do is echo others who offer thoughts and prayers for you and your family. x

Merlot I am so very sorry to hear about your daughter, a child is the most precious gift there is. My heart goes out to you and your husband.
I hope that your Gd's place at medical school will give you a focus to help you through this desperately sad time. ?

I`m so very sad for you and your family Merlot.

It has all been said, merlot. But my thoughts are with you and my love goes with them to you and yours. (((hugs)))

Merlot, I have just seen this thread, I cannot find the words to express my sorrow for you and your family, but I can offer my prayers.

merlot we have very rarely spoke over the years on GN, and I have not been part of GN for a number of months.

Everybody has very eloquently expressed everything that I would have said.

My thoughts and sorrow are sent to you and your loved ones.

There are no words? we lost a child in the family ( niece) 6 years ago. It’s a tragedy, one shared by many others. It doesn’t make it easier, but love and thoughts will be with you. ?

So sorry for your heartbreaking situation. Treat yourself very kindly.

Merlot so sorry to hear this. It must be unbearable but you are so strong. Thinking about you and your family x

Sympathy in abundance Merlot - no flowers, no wine, no coffee, no nothing - just peace for you all........

Such sad news I'm praying for you all X sending hugs xx

Merlot I am more sorry than I can say, my heart is breaking for you and your family. I have been thinking about you ever since you first posted about your daughter. You have been constantly in my thoughts, along with several others on GN.
If only my thoughts could help, even a little, to ease your pain xx

I’m glad you have posted your feelings on Gransnet Merlot. The situation must be hell for you. I wish I could do something to make it better.

Merlot, I am so very sorry. Holding you, your precious girl and your whole family in my prayers.

merlotgran I send my love and the hope you and the family find strength and serenity is this most awful of situations.

Since I first read of your daughter's diagnosis, I have shed many tears for her, and you, and you've been in my thoughts each day....and will continue to be remembered.

With much love

My Lord - how do you do it, how do you carry on ,
on a day to day basis....our family have had one or two scares over the years but have come out of them. However, at that time. I couldn't eat. I couldn't sleep, couldn't clean the house, just concentrated on the problem in hand.
It may sound a bit simplistic. But where there's life, there is hope. So I would still wait and pray

Merlotgran….Others have said it with more eloquence, but I too am thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.

Sending my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

So so sorry Merlot. If there was something any of us on here could do for you know, we would. Sadly life and death are intrinsically linked and there really is nothing anyone can do. So sad for you and your family and of course your DD. I sincerely hope her passing is painless and quick. That's all any of us can really hope for love. Unbearable.....

merlotthinking of you so much. I lost an adult child myself a few years ago (in different circumstances).
My heartfelt sympathy to you. I wish you strength . From one mother to another

merlot - so many times you have propped me up with your kind posts when needed. And now I find I do not have the words to offer you in your hour of need. This is such a difficult moment in all your lives; but I would venture to say that your DD is clearly much loved and surrounded by those who care for her and this is the very best that any of us can hope for as our lives draw to a close.

I am holding you in my thoughts and in my heart.

merlot I have no words, x

Merlot,you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.Sending much love and strength to you all.xx

I don’t post often but have been following your post Merlot. We too have an adult daughter with a life limiting condition so my heart goes out to you. Each day is so precious as we are so aware those days are likely to be few. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers as you try as I do to stay strong for your loved ones although inside our hearts are breaking.x

Thorntrees that’s so sad to read. Sending you a little hug.
Please come on here whenever you feel like a sympathetic ear.