Having a bad day.

I have been thinking of you since I read of your heartbreaking news on another thread. There is nothing I can say or do to ease your pain. I’m thinking of you and your family. I can only say how very very sorry I am.

So sorry Merlot imo all you can do is keep on keeping on and only do what you absolutely have to do or what you feel like doing. Sometimes we feel the need to be busy but don't want to do anything. So very hard.

Post here if you feel like it, so much support but if you don't feel like posting just don't. I am sure we will all understand.

My heart goes out to you

Merlot
I have just left my H in hospital waiting now to hear that he has been moved to a local community hospital for palliative and end of life care.
He is 83 ,has had a good, long life and it is the time for nature to take its course.
To lose a young person is unbearably hard and my heart goes out to you all.

Sorry to hear such sad news, cannot even begin to imagine how you are feeling.

Thank you so much, everyone. I'm feeling a little better thanks to DGD2 (different family) who has an offer of a place to study medicine at King's and has been there today to sort out accommodation. She's been sending me photos throughout the day. We're very proud of her achievement and her excitement has lifted us. morethan I know you are going through similar anguish. It's so hard but kind thoughts and messages help a lot especially as I'm avoiding friends in the village because I can't talk. Really can't get more than a few words out. I feel safe at home.

I have no words either, merlotgran, except to say that thoughts and prayers are with you all

Bless you, I am glad that everyone's kind thoughts here are giving you a tiny bit of comfort, I too am thinking of you, it is so wrong to lose a child, at any age, and you must be feeling so helpless, angry and despairing. I pray that you will be able to get your daughter home, our local Hospice at Home are completely brilliant in their support, not just for the patient, but the family too, do make use of that if you possibly can. I hope you are in touch with organisations such as Marie Curie too? I can't send you real flowers, but this is the best I can do with a big virtual hug!

Oh Merlot, you and your daughter have been in my thoughts since you told us the awful news of her diagnosis.

My heart goes out to you and your DH and your darling girl.

Whenever you need to vent and pour your heart out remember you have friends here who will always willingly help in any way we can. ?

Oh Merlot..that is heartbreaking news for you and your family..do what you can..when you can... sending hugs,love and prayers. .lean on us all here on gransnet..our shoulders...will hold you up...night and day...?

Can only echo what others have said, Merlot and my heart truly goes out to you. You will always have a shoulder to lean on here. Your GD’s news will have let a little sunshine in for you. There are always chinks of light in the darkest dark.???

I know that I have no words that will help you through this most awful time, but I still wanted to say that my heart goes out to you

What a dreadfully heavy load you have been given to bear, everyone on GN, I am sure, feels for you. We all, regardless of beliefs, wish you and your DH and DGD the strength to cope with the situation. Please use GN, we are all there for you and send our love. x

I am so sorry

So sorry Merlot.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
I wish I could provide comfort but a child is so precious.

So so sorry to hear this.Sending you and your daughter lots of strength and love .

But, well done to your dgd! merlot.

So glad to hear that news from your granddaughter has helped a little through the day merlot. She sounds a GD to be really proud of.

Dear Merlot, my heart goes out to you. My beloved sibling is in a similar situation and it's agony to watch the decline taking place. I cannot imagine how many times magnified your pain must be when it's your precious child you're watching. I am so sorry. Xx

So very sad to read your news, thoughts with you and the family

I am so sorry Merlot, my thoughts are with you and your family.

? thinking of you

So so sad for you and your beloved family