I'm in the 'today we are .....' camp. When teaching, the day often started with either verbal, or blackboard/whiteboard instructions, plans etc. If I had the means, I would develop a commercial product which would start this pattern from early stages. It would consist of a range of attractive, relevant pictures, amongst other pictorial, or actual, props which would demonstrate 'today we are . . . '. The attributes could be related to clothing, activities, places to go, food etc. My idea would be that the 'board' would be discussed at the start of the day, so that the child is aware of what is going to take place. This would obviously be in very simple terms at the early stage, moving on with age. As children grow older, they could be involved in the planning. Parents could add their own drawings and ideas. With my rosy spectacles on, my hope would be that daily planning in the home would be just part of the routine, and could help the day to go more smoothly, perhaps avoid conflict and make the transition to school easier. In my dreams!!