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SOS1965 Tue 28-May-19 12:10:58

I'm 53 and married to a man who bores me rigid. He is 51 but is old in his ways, never wants to do anything or go anywhere.
He hasn't worked for over 2 years I'm starting to begrudge being the bread winner.
Sexually nothing for a long time, he says I've put on weight and he doesn't find me as attractive.
So I found myself a man who does, it's purely sex. Dirty, mind blowing sex.
I've never felt so good or attractive.
I stay with my husband for the children.
I know I should feel some guilt but I don't.

nanaK54 Tue 28-May-19 20:33:58

Excellent news - enjoy grin

FlexibleFriend Wed 29-May-19 10:03:25

I don't think being an old slapper is anything to brag about tbh.

MawBroonsback Wed 29-May-19 10:37:21

Methinks OP doth protest too much hmm

blondenana Wed 29-May-19 17:09:08

Maybe op isn;t new, maybe she has changed her username,or maybe she hasn;t many friends and just needs to tell people that she is happier than before,,
maybe her life has been very miserable,life is too short
I don;t know, but i am always willing to give people the benefit of the doubt,
Whatever,it is her life, and right or wrong , up to her

NanaandGrampy Wed 29-May-19 18:10:17

The Op isn't asking for input, advice, help or support . She's made a statement. It comes across as an attempt to shock . P.S that failed miserably then !!

Blondenana if you believe it I have a bridge you might want to buy :-)

Bathsheba Wed 29-May-19 19:18:39

Hahaha, oh dear, hahaha. <Pulls up chair, settles down to enjoy> ? ? ? ? ?

Chewbacca Wed 29-May-19 19:59:41

Love it Flexible! grin

Esther1 Wed 29-May-19 20:26:44

SOS I say just enjoy your special times with your special friend for what they are. It makes you a happier person so everyone, even grumpy old hubby benefits. Just be careful, don’t get too involved, don’t rock the boat and keep your home life in a separate compartment. With care you can carry on like this and nobody needs to know or get hurt. You must be careful though!