I'm 53 and married to a man who bores me rigid. He is 51 but is old in his ways, never wants to do anything or go anywhere. He hasn't worked for over 2 years I'm starting to begrudge being the bread winner. Sexually nothing for a long time, he says I've put on weight and he doesn't find me as attractive. So I found myself a man who does, it's purely sex. Dirty, mind blowing sex. I've never felt so good or attractive. I stay with my husband for the children. I know I should feel some guilt but I don't.
Maybe op isn;t new, maybe she has changed her username,or maybe she hasn;t many friends and just needs to tell people that she is happier than before,, maybe her life has been very miserable,life is too short I don;t know, but i am always willing to give people the benefit of the doubt, Whatever,it is her life, and right or wrong , up to her
The Op isn't asking for input, advice, help or support . She's made a statement. It comes across as an attempt to shock . P.S that failed miserably then !!
Blondenana if you believe it I have a bridge you might want to buy :-)
SOS I say just enjoy your special times with your special friend for what they are. It makes you a happier person so everyone, even grumpy old hubby benefits. Just be careful, don’t get too involved, don’t rock the boat and keep your home life in a separate compartment. With care you can carry on like this and nobody needs to know or get hurt. You must be careful though!