It has been five days now & the fog has started to clear. I've managed to separate each issue and think more clearly. Thanks to everyone who has replied as it does help. I decided to contact my Dad through text message & this was our conversation; It's hggyug (my name), why has my aunt been texting me?
He wrote; Hi I don't know, where you told of my major operation
I said; you don't know, yes I heard about it but through someone else. I wish you well
He said: Thanks for that, I would have loved to have you here. Forget the past. Dad
I said : well of course I wish you well always have obviously, tried too many times though and it goes nowhere
He said: I have had 7 years of health issues that's why it's gone nowhere. I have had to put myself first to survive I'm sorry this is my second chance of life.
(I have heard that sentence for years and years from him)
I said: You seem to have a very different view on anything. That is not my opinion. You are and have been how you are for years and years and years. You need to keep on thinking about yourself and getting yourself better and staying better and enjoy your life.
He said: Thanks for your reply
And that was that. He is lying when he said he didn't know why my aunt had been texting. He did know! Also when he didn't like what I said he cut it off and said thanks for your reply
Anger management!!! Help needed.
