I may have to put on my tin hat and hide behind the sofa, but I sincerely hope not as this is a genuine question.
Would you say that you actually challenge your thinking and if so, would say that your views are evolving because of it?
Let me give you an example: in my much younger days, I was married to a member of the armed forces, I read only the newspaper that he bought and listened to people (primarily his friends) whose views mainly mirrored his. I didn't expose myself very much, certainly not deliberately, to contrary views and yet at the time I could have given a rationale for what I 'believed'.
Later I went to college and was exposed to a range of different views and I tried to teach myself to really 'listen' to others rather than react by 'defending' my own opinions and in doing so I found that my own thinking not only changed quite radically, but continued to evolve.
Now I read widely, I try very hard not to demonize others' points of view, I seek out the opinions of people who hold views that are antithetical to my own - and I try (not always with success) to find points of commonality or mutuality.
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.
Being moved along by someone who "wants your place".
How do you acknowledge Easter.