Sillygrandma I do understand. My daughter was exactly like you. Among other things everything in her marital home had to be white. I'm sure it's great to be yourself again and not be controlled.
I'm not affected to that extent but still I do feel an element of control. And when I stand my ground he makes me feel guilty about it. I'm not sure about after retirement but I do know at work he had admin staff to do all the donkey work, and he made all the decisions and I think still acts that way..
I love him though so I have got to fix this because I'm not happy with it. I do feel controlled and bullied and I do actually panic sometimes when making decisions.
This thread has been very helpful to me and I feel positive now about being more assertive.
Bradfordlass I wonder why they went out of fashion. I used to love hanging my freshly washed net curtains.
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