Meghan decided very young in life when she wrote that she wanted to be a princess, that she would work to become a celebrity. She did that and topped it by using that celebrity status to come to the attention of a young man with a history of mental fragility (understandably). In my opinion there was never any way that this press-savvy celebrity did not know what being a member of the British RF meant - and equally no way that she did not plan to enhance her celebrity status by becoming Harry's wife. That done, they have lived a charmed life, underpinned by the millions of pounds of Charles' personal money that Charles is now complaining about. And now they both want to become self-supporting - well surely with their properties and Megan's pre-RF earnings, they can be self-supporting - oh wait, does that mean they want to keep their current lifestyle? Of course it does … so all these pleas for them to live as 'ordinary' people are quite ridiculous because at the same time there is a convenient forgetting of all the support they have had thus far. Ordinary people go to university, take out a loan and pay it back when they earn enough to do so. That's how their strategy for life and self-supporting is planned. Harry and Megan should do the same but they have enough to pay back now so let them repay the costs of their wedding, let them pay for the costs of their security - they're either ordinary or they're royal - can't have it both ways - do I feel sorry for Harry - not one bit - I did when he was a young boy but he's a man now and millions of people get over total traumas. What is wrong with the British public that it continually obsesses over people with privilege when half of London is living out of food banks - nurses and teachers included.
The importance of grandparents - we could have told them this!

