Hello and welcome to all new Grans-netters. I've been around this site for a few years now and thoroughly enjoy hearing other points of view, good advice, occasional cut and thrust , laughter and fun, but most often the loving, caring, sharing sympathy and support for those in need.
It takes a while for others to become aware of you so keep on posting until we get to know and recognise you. I was just becoming known and feeling included when I changed my name so have more or less had to start again (although I received a very warm welcome on the good morning thread today) so my advice to you would be to stick with your chosen name, keep posting, give it time and enjoy Gransnet.