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What will you MISS when the lock down ends??

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Craftycat Wed 27-May-20 10:41:49

I know what we all miss with the lock down- seeing hairdresser ( 1st priority) DGC, clothes shopping ,yoga class, coffee with friends etc. but will there be something you will miss once we get back to normal?
I know I will miss sitting on the sunbed ALL afternoon with a Kindle full of books.
I will have to get up earlier again as DH will (hopefully) be going back to work.
I will miss going round a nice quiet supermarket as we are only allowed a certain number of shoppers in at the moment- I won't mind the queue outside but TBH you do get to chat to some interesting people.
I will miss the total lack of urgency for anything to be done too.
There have been good things come out of this- I know every neighbour in our cul de sac now as we all chat after 'clapping' & have had several 'street parties' where we all sit outside our own houses & walk up middle of road talking to each other. Lovely to see the children playing.
I have actually enjoyed my daily walk too instead of jumping in the car all the time.
I know our cats will miss not having a convenient lap available all day.
There have been positives in all this madness.

Baggs Wed 27-May-20 18:24:42

I will miss the absence of junk mail.

Aldom Wed 27-May-20 19:04:06

Me too Bags, it's lovely not to have junk mail. Also like others : peace and quiet, clear blue skies, birdsong, quiet shopping, empty roads, the smiles of strangers as we pass carefully in the street, plus all the other stuff like make up. But it will be oh so sweet to be with my family again, meet friends, go to concerts, Art Society etc.

Kittycat Wed 27-May-20 19:10:24

I’m already missing the beautiful peace there was when I stepped out into my little bit of garden. One day there was a power cut and it was even more amazing! No background hum from everyone’s electrical equipment. We shall probably never again hear it as peaceful as it has been during the lockdown. But the thing I will be most happy to hear again will be my Daughter and Granddaughters voices as they stand by me chatting. Swap it any day for the peace and quiet.

BlueBelle Wed 27-May-20 19:13:15

Absolutely nothing

Madgran77 Wed 27-May-20 19:17:10

Its nice having no urgency about anything much! I'll miss that I think!

GagaJo Wed 27-May-20 19:24:39

Most of all, I’ll miss my grandson. I’m working from home (he and DD live here) and if I manage my work right, I can take him out somewhere in the afternoon. Today we went to an almost empty, nearby beach. Back to proper work for me is away from home so it’ll be weeks before I see him again.

I’ll also miss going braless and shoeless. And I’ll miss marking students work online. So much easier than exercise books!

Gingster Wed 27-May-20 19:30:49

Yes I agree with you all. A slower, peaceful way of life. A clear calendar. No pressure to do anything. We all needed a breather as life was getting so frantic.

Urmstongran Wed 27-May-20 19:56:41

I’m very fortunate. I won’t miss anything. This ‘quiet life’ is my life anyway - as I’m retired with no calls on my time. Unless/until I can/want to jazz it up.
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NannyMags Thu 28-May-20 09:42:43

I shall miss working with cats on my lap

Franbern Thu 28-May-20 09:54:08

Bluebelle - I am with you. There is nothing I will miss. If I want to keep my diary free I will still be able to do so.

I so very much miss at present - the visits I should have been having from family and friends - bet anything that next year these weeks will not have this lovely sunshine weather for me to be able to show off to them my flat and new hometown!!

I miss just being able to amble around a store, looking - not for anything in particular, but just looking.

I miss the trust people have at being near to each other. Find that very difficult - feel like lepers must have felt!!!

Miss being able to have the g.children that I have living nearby able to just pop in to see me as and when they wish.

Miss seeing the children in their uniforms going off each morning to school, hearing them playing during break time, and seeing them returning home in the afternoon.

Miss all the festivals that should have been held during this period, which i was so looking forward to going to.

Miss being able to go to the Theatres and Cinema and go on coach outings.

Miss - very much - being able to social meals with other people. Living by myself I always have most meals just with me, but would have my daughter round once a week, and would be able to go to meet-up lunches, and restaurants for birthday meals.

Miss just being able to pop on to a bus, for no reason other than it would be a nice way to spend an hour or two.

Nothing terrible - I know how fortunate I am - but cannot wait for this all to be behind us.

Juicylucy Thu 28-May-20 09:55:53

I’m with tanith the freedom of time. Just love that I can please myself all day without having to clock watch. Doing what I want when I want.
It’s made me realise I’m so ready for retirement.Im 64 tomorrow so only another 2 years.

goldengirl Thu 28-May-20 09:56:15

The lack of noise. It's been so peaceful in the garden - no traffic roar and no aeroplanes going over. The birdsong has been amazing.

Rachand Thu 28-May-20 10:07:40

Nothing!

Kartush Thu 28-May-20 10:08:47

I will miss not having the excuse to stay home

Hellsbelles Thu 28-May-20 10:13:55

My husband has been making bread a couple of times a week. My waistline won't miss that !

Happysexagenarian Thu 28-May-20 10:14:53

I'll miss....

The clean air, no car fumes
Quiet empty roads
The increased bird song of the past few months, or maybe I can just hear it better because there's no traffic to drown it out
The lack of stress of having to go places and attend appointments. My IBS has improved dramatically during lockdown
As someone else said, the certainty that I can settle down to do something I enjoy and won't be interrupted
Not having to 'entertain/feed' friends, neighbours or family who just decide to 'drop in' whenever they please
Not going to the supermarket. I think we will continue to have our shopping delivered
The community spirit and friendliness in our village. It would be nice to think it will continue, but I have my doubts

timetogo2016 Thu 28-May-20 10:17:29

I`m with Tanith,Ginny and BBevan and the rest of you that enjoy NOT having to go from A to B at a certain time.

magshard20 Thu 28-May-20 10:18:23

Chewbacca, if you don't feel like wearing make up, don't ! I have not worn make up for over 30 years, never, not for work, or going out even. It saves so much time, money etc. Don't be a slave to the foundation, eye make up, lipstick, be yourself if the people you work for or with don't like it they can "lump it"!!!!!!!

newgran2019 Thu 28-May-20 10:20:04

My stress level has come right down since lockdown as we haven't had the day-to-day responsibility for a demanding, critical elderly mother with whom I have always had a difficult relationship. We are currently barred from visiting her sheltered accommodation and have been doing whatever we can to bring some pleasure to her incarcerated life, but although I of course feel sympathy for her situation, I also dread what life may be like when this is over. And please don't just say 'set boundaries' - she won't accept them.

felice Thu 28-May-20 10:24:34

The glorious weather, we are taking jokey bets as to how quickly it will change after lockdown, and the schools go on summer holidays, 1st July.

nipsmum Thu 28-May-20 10:27:01

How quiet it is.
I can get a parking space outside my house
I can get a Tesco delivery for the first time in 3 months
I can hug my children and grandchildren again
I have missed all these things.

annecordelia Thu 28-May-20 10:32:32

The lack of litter on my evening walk...

henetha Thu 28-May-20 10:36:08

Not having to make small talk with people I hardly know.

sandwichgeneration Thu 28-May-20 10:38:47

Fresh Air. It's made a huge difference in South London.

BusterTank Thu 28-May-20 10:55:07

I will miss knowing my family are safe and well under one roof .