Miserable people.

FarNorth. Maybe I shudda deleted this one ?

And re those who know it all .... I’m full of admiration. The older I get, the less I know.

Better go and make a cuppa. I’m getting right out of my tree today. Hoho.

MissTree you're right about wanting to sort out a problem.
I sometimes do as paddyanne says and write a post, or part of one, then delete it while thinking "What the heck. I really don't need to feel so involved in this."

'One day we'll look back and laugh.
Why wait?
Just have a good laugh now.'

Yes Alima . I knew it was a risky one !

You’re right, paddyanne. To feel passion about something is a great thing .

There are more of the - for want of a better word - ‘nice’ people on here than the others. And I do avoid stuff I don’t like. I can’t be bothered to argue much though it does happen ?. I recognise that Gn is a safe place to rant when you need to .
My husband once said to me!” Why do you spend so much time on negatives ?” ( or words to that effect) . So I looked it up on a psychology forum and apparently if there’s a problem the brain wants to sort it but if all is ok it doesn’t need a mention.

I think what I mean by miserable people is those who give you a one liner like’ well switch it off then’ or those who dismiss someone’s feelings.

Being angry, sad, happy, content are all parts of being human, there is nothing wrong with any of those emotions.

Blimey MissTree, you been on bravery pills?
There do seem to be all sorts on here, miseries, black-catters, those who want a fight, anyone will do. Some who know best about everything. Some who see the funny side, handy when times are had. Some wise old or youngish heads. Some very fair sounding people who don’t shout but their opinion is worth a lot. Bit of a mush-mash really.

I'm not miserable ,honest,I am passionate about some things and will fight my corner for them for as long as I can breathe.
Apart from those I'm the most laid back person on the planet ,love my music,food the people in my life ,my amazing OH and my kids and GC ,the greatest of gifts .I try to avoid the folk on here who irritate me the most,maybe you should do the same .
Type what you would answer and then DELETE it ,it gets it out of your system and keeps you out of the arguement when you'd rather not be involved .

Yep I agree. I juts dont think its helpful even to oneself to be so negative. As I have said before a good debate is one things, constant carping is something else. DH and I are doing our best to keep each other upbeat and not worrying our families that we are sad not to see them they know that and feel the same. We have neighbours who are flouting the rules but its not our business so we dont worry about it. Stay cheery MissTree

Exactly as you say Miss Tree!