Hithere I did not think that many mums used the cotton diapers these days. (Given you use the word diapers and also mom) I am guessing that you are American or Canadian.
Right at the beginning of this thread I did actually say that 3 years old is good to get the child into underwear and out of nappies, I agree that 2 years old is still young.
My daughter did not have the childrens father living in the house so she was the one in charge of taking full responsibility to potty train.
I never tell my daughter how to parent my grand-children and only if she asks my advice about how to do something do I tell her. I have found that my son will tell his sister that she is not correctly bathing/ washing the children as she should and she does get angry with him. It was hard work using terry nappies but worthwhile and never did I have problems with nappy rash.
Eazybee; I suppose that nursery staff have to play a part in toilet training as many mothers have not carried out the essential task in the home. I have also said further up the thread that my own grand-son now aged 38 months old is still wearing nappies. I have tried to discuss this with my daughter but she says the nursery can do it. I do not blame the nursery staff being resentful about that as the training should be implemented in the home after all it is not rocket science to train your child to use the potty/bathroom correctly.
July 23 Limerick (continuation of July 21)