...you catch a fleeting glimpse of her as you pass a mirror in some shop - even though she’s been dead for 5 years! Enough to give anyone a funny turn.
I sound like my bloody mother. I come out with the bloody irritating things she says. 'Why on earth are you watching that crap?'. 'It's like Blackpool Illuminations in here.'
It was her mantra and often made me realise ‘no, not really I suppose’ and immediately felt a lot better. I do miss her wise words and comforting presence.
I would know I had turned into my mum if I said "close that door you weren't born in a barn" or "turn the light off we are not plugged into the national grid".
And you keep coming out with sayings like "Every cloud has a silver lining", "A fool and his money are soon parted", "Save the pennies and the pounds will look after themselves", "One man's meat is another man's poison" etc etc etc
I was determined not to sound like my mam then one day I heard myself say the immortal old lady phrases, "She'll catch her death going out in those skimpy clothes", "What she needs is a nice coat over that dress" and worst of all "I just don't understand young people these days"
“I don’t care who started it, I’m finishing it” Used to drive my bickering brother and I insane - I did a double take when I heard my mums words escape my mouth to my own two children!!
My mum is 92, she’s a staunch feminist and has always been very outspoken. One thing she says is ‘he’s more mouth than trousers’ - found myself saying that the other day without even understanding what it means!
I’ve just been talking to my brother online and we were remembering my mum always saying how kind and helpful the shopping delivery folks were. We were saying just that the other day now that due to Covid we also have online shopping - the deliveries ladies and men are always so friendly and helpful!!!! We both smile whenever we say it!