Number 4 daughter, calls about 4 times a day, and can stay on the phone for an average of around an hour at a time of until she has managed to totally flatten my battery! She only lives a ten min walk away, but cannot visit due to lock down and her high risk of Covid keyworkers job.
Number 3 Daughter only calls when in a crisis, or she needs something, she prefares Messenger to actual phone calls, and suffers from a rare long term condition which can effect her eyesight and mobility. It's rare that she ever visits us, but we can be with her if needed within a 15min drive away.
Number 2 Daughter messages most days, visits once or twice a week, and spends much of the day with us, she is my Carer, helps me to have a good hot shower, does the general cleaning and housework, and takes me to any appointments I may have. I cannot visit her home at the moment due to access problems since she moved in just over a year ago, we are now looking to get this sorted once the Covid restrictions are lifted, and installing a more disability friendly second access into her property.
Number 1 Daughter seldom rings or Messages, I follow her on Facebook sometimes, but she tends to live in a small world of her own, and we only see her at family gatherings or Christmas and Birthdays, she lives about an hours drive away from us, but tends to value her privacy. Sadly her marriage is not a happy one, and her husband can be quite controlling at times. If I call her, I can hear him shouting abuse in the background. Hes a heavy drinker, he believes that I always favour my other Grandchildren more than the ones who are his, which it's totally untrue, they all get treated the same, the only things that they sometimes miss out on is totally his own doing, when he forbids them to attend any family gatherings with their Cousins who are of a similar age, which is his own fault not mine!