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soop Tue 23-Mar-21 12:57:16

Here we are again
Happy as can be
All good friends and jolly good company.

Welcome. Take a seat and enjoy our opening day celebration.

Grandmafrench Sun 25-Apr-21 19:29:44

Hello all

Safely back from Vaccine appointment! Photo for you GrandmaB and anyone else who'd fancy a trip to the beautiful old City at Carcassonne.

Slightly discomknockerated to note that it tried to rain on our parade - literally. We hadn't gone more than about 30 miles when we needed to use the windscreen wipers. No rain since Moses was in short trousies, and since we just don't go far, (not allowed normally) we wondered why we were being singled out for showers. However, it didn't come to much and everything dry again after about an hour.

What are we going to do with you soop ? Genuinely hope that you will do not very much at all until you start feeling a whole lot better. The antibiotics will probably knock you for six, so it's so important to rest up, lounge about, enjoy your fabulous views and demand that the occasional grape is peeled for you by your favourites in-house caring person!
Read a very interesting article in the paper yesterday, which I shall send to you. Seriously now, take care. We will all go to pieces without you, so don't force us to send you threatening letters, please. (Galen looks like she may already be on the warpath!)

Sounds like everyone is busy and relatively cheery. As one of our lovely Kitcheners has said, cabin fever is difficult to deal with. Well, we'll all be released back into the wilds of life soon and there should be no further need for us inmates to be turning on each other in our own homes. Sensible men need to read the signs and stand well back, I think. ? (But either they don't, or of course they're just not very sensible!)

How lovely are you to be sending cwtches to soop, *Panache. You should be saving everything for the two of you at the moment. Life must be so hard and we are all aching from willing things to get better for you. Take care, please.

So glad your builder is being brilliant, syn, even if your postman is obviously.......well........barking?!

Knew he'd come good, Muse. Know you're very pleased! Wonder why our grown children never ever understand just how much we stress and worry and wish so hard for them. They can just go off radar and never think or realise how upset we get. Hope he lands the new job and allows his dear Mum to remain happy and optimistic! x

Good evening wishes to all of you. Stay safe and keep a look out for silver linings, rainbows, flamingoes, unicorns, four-leaf clovers, lucky pennies, lucky heather, black cats (maybe not Fern!), new moons, fairies at the bottom of gardens and also tooth fairies and guardian angels. We need all the luck and happiness we can at the moment. So stay alert ???

French hugs ?‍♀️?

Grandmabatty Sun 25-Apr-21 18:04:57

Soop beautiful photos again. ? For you. Feeling nauseous is pretty grim. Urmstongran that's a lovely thing to do and say about Soop's photos. You are a very kind person.
It has been a beautiful day. I've pottered inside and out and have had a snooze as I woke really early. JaxJacky reading every thing you have done today makes me tired again! Chicken, chips and salad for tea. Have a good evening all.

BladeAnnie Sun 25-Apr-21 17:45:45

Good evening dear kitcheners - just popping in the kitchen to send my very best wishes to everyone who is feeling under the weather flowers. soop make sure you look after yourself and as Panache says we are all here for you virtually smile. Hoping everyone has a very calm and pleasant evening

Jaxjacky Sun 25-Apr-21 17:37:37

Poor soop still feeling rough, May you have a peaceful night and some swift attention tomorrow.
Another allotment visit, 4 bags of old horse poo bought, unloaded and spread, carted another 4 on to my friends plot too. First courgette plant glimpsed in the greenhouse beneath the soil and sowed some flower seeds, 2 of my cucumber seedlings indoors have damped off, basically no good. Oven on for a roast in a bag chicken and veg prepped, all will be done, dusted and cleared away by Mr J well before LoD. I’ve booked a slot at the local tip tomorrow for all the cardboard accumulated from deliveries, our old kitchen bin, lurking in the garden can go too. I can’t abide ‘clutter’, and 2 cleaning tidies are ensconced with said cleaning bits in bathrooms, one up, one down.
Wishing you all a gentle evening x

Urmstongran Sun 25-Apr-21 17:08:55

‘Evening All’

Earlier for me. We’ve had a lovely afternoon lunch with my stepfather. Himself is just back from taking him home. I sided the table and washed up. Teamwork!

Now what to do? I’m not a fan of Call the Midwife or LoD. Read some articles I’ve saved to my ‘Pocket’ app I think. There’s no point otherwise!

Beautiful sunset soop thank you for sharing. I can’t believe this is your view every evening looking out to the west. I’d sit there and look out at that gorgeous sunset and feel any care or woes melt away. Nature in all her glory indeed. Living by water has got to be the best and most holistic in my opinion.

I’ve downloaded that photo and have selected it as my screen saver. I do like to change them every now and again. It will stay there until you tell us you are feeling better. Each time I open my iPad I will be thinking of you. x

Fennel Sun 25-Apr-21 17:08:37

So sorry your old problems have come back. If only the doctors could come up with some new technique to repair drop-bot etc
Thinking of you. And others on here who have pfoblems.

Charleygirl5 Sun 25-Apr-21 16:15:41

soop would Fern venture into the garden or is that a step too far and she may feel trapped?

You must rest and that is an order. You have too many buggerations going on at the same time which does not help.

TOYA

Yiayia4 Sun 25-Apr-21 16:14:42

Hope your feeling a bit better Soop sending healing thoughts.?
I know exactly what you mean GrannySomerset it’s been a long lock down!
A sunny but breezy day here,chicken souvlaki for dinner.
Hope your o.k Panache Have a good evening everyone.

soop Sun 25-Apr-21 15:59:15

You lot are the best. Thank you for your kind messages. I appreciate them. I have no intention of banging on about my medical buggerations. Not when there are so many of you dear Kitcheners who are dealing with far worse.

I feel very nauseous. Perfectly happy to sit quietly in the sunny garden. All will be well. When things return to sort-of normal, I shall be bouncing back to share some happy moments with you.

Three images for you. Big virtual hugs a plenty. smile moon

cornergran Sun 25-Apr-21 15:34:21

Forgot to say. Our goddaughter is back home. Sadly the whole process wasn't as had been explained to her and she's pretty upset as well as relieved its over and done with. A different surgeon on the day with a different approach. She's back in personal carer role in spite of being instructed to rest for 5 days. I can't change that one so I'm focusing on distanced cheering up and positivity. Just hope it helps.

cornergran Sun 25-Apr-21 15:29:18

A huge get better soon from me soop, please no more apologies, you've created a space here where we can all be honest about just how life is.

Good to see you panache, you are both often in my thoughts.

Hope the antibiotics work their magic and Maisie can settle with you soon maw, keep smiling.

I totally understand grannysomerset, cabin fever has a lot to answer for.

Had a very windy walk around a lake this morning, the sky was blue and so was my nose by the time we returned to the car. There has been a lot of work carried out there, much improved views across and many more seats. With less wind and a few more degrees I'll settle happily. I tried to post a photo but it wouldn't load, not sure if the Gremlin is with me or GN.

TOYA. Take care everyone.

dragonfly46 Sun 25-Apr-21 15:20:49

I just popped in to see how everyone is and find that our precious soop is ill.
I do hope you feel better soon and the scan is ASAP.

Yes I think Maw is disappointed but is trying to keep an emotional distance. She is very wise.

I do hope things are a little better with you Panache.
And yes good to see you Galen.

Panache Sun 25-Apr-21 14:47:43

Time indeed to reach out and say a very warm Hello dear Soop.........and no we will not stand back and let you suffer in silence.
You mean so very much to so many,you have been so kind and caring over many years, always there with kin dness and an uplift whenever we have our own problems.
So sad hearing you are having such a rough time.
Although we may not be able to truly help in the physical sense, we certainly can you give you a virtual welsh cwtch and offer you a rapid return to improved health.flowers

Whilst Maw thinking very much of you especially after hearing of your sad canin e loss.
However so pleased that there is another pet on the horizon and I wish Maisie a full recovery,so that she will be able to join you soon.
She will help heal the wounds left behind following losing your former companion.flowers

Love to you all.

Feelingmyage55 Sun 25-Apr-21 14:11:10

Dear soop, I am glad your doctor is “on your case”. My very best thoughts ?

kittylester Sun 25-Apr-21 13:16:33

Hi galen! Its lovely to see you! How are you? Xx

Galen Sun 25-Apr-21 12:45:28

soop how dare you be ill? It’s not allowed while I’m not there. I’m back now, so you’d better get well quickly! ?❤️

Pittcity Sun 25-Apr-21 10:44:33

I know the feeling grannysomerset. I have far too much time on my hands and find fault with everything. Two men in my house much of the time ....aaargh!!! Can't wait until were fully let out.

Sending hugs to you, Soop and all x

GrannySomerset Sun 25-Apr-21 09:23:00

Still cold but sunny so more time in the garden I think though I can still feel the effects of yesterday’s efforts. Nothing much else but we are really feeling the effects of being out of social circulation for so long. Yesterday evening we agreed that we would be better in separate rooms as DH is fed up with my constant fault finding and I am fed up with doing it. Resolved to be more positive today though I can’t promise!

NanaandGrampy Sun 25-Apr-21 09:14:22

Morning all,

Its another bright day here and I have passed a cheery 20 minutes watching a hare dance in the field . There was a passing duet with Norbert the Pheasant who was en route to breakfast in our garden and then the hare leapt off to do whatever hares do on a Sunday !

I am so sorry to hear you are feeling poorly Soop , I hope by today you are feeling much better but a weekend of rest wouldn't go amiss would it?

We are slowly working our way round the house tidying and spring cleaning . The garden is being tidied too. We have our fingers crossed for visitors in May when the rules change again and I want to enjoy every second so we'll do the work now.

I hope everyone has something to make them smile in their day today x

Puzzler61 Sun 25-Apr-21 09:02:04

Popping into the kitchen with kind wishes for all who are feeling rotten especially our dear soop ?
and for Maw ?
Hoping today brings better things.
The warmth of friendship in this kitchen means we can share all - good, bad, sad and downright unfair, and understanding is guaranteed as you are such lovely people ?

Synonymous Sat 24-Apr-21 21:21:31

Soop so sorry that you are so unwell, we had such high hopes when that surgery took place that all would be sorted. Sending you much love and hope you get better very soon. flowers

I am pleased to report that our builder has been brilliant and has rearranged schedules to make the kitchen work possible. He just said we were not to worry and he would sort it all out a different way, outlined how he would do it all and just smiled and went off - the strong silent type! I could have hugged him but I don’t think it would have gone down too well. hmm What a relief though! He also got his sidekick and moved various heavy items for us which also helped enormously so I am a very happy lady.

For the second time since the building work started we have had an ‘interesting’ postal delivery which we can only assume to be by a relief postman as nobody has ever delivered to anywhere other than our front door which is clearly visible. On the first occasion the wall, gateway and porch had been demolished exposing the old side door which had a letterbox 2/3rds of the way up it and the footings had been dug out leaving a distance of around 6 -7 feet up to it from the ground. The postman walked past the pathway to the front door and jumped down into the excavated building site and leapt up to post our mail through the side door. What a chump! On the second occasion we had just had the concrete poured for the floors when he did it the following morning. You really do wonder, when we have tried to rope it all off but some people are determined to go their own way. Himself has now plastered it with black sticky tape which is very obvious. I have now phoned the Royal Mail to try and make sure it doesn’t happen again not wishing to cause trouble for the postman but to ensure that he stops doing it and we are not held responsible for damage or even injuries caused by such antics. Very weird!

Urmstongran Sat 24-Apr-21 20:37:46

‘Evening All’

Just popped in to wish you all a peaceful night ahead. We’ve just got back from babysitting. Left two sleeping children as Himself picked up theirs parents from the wine bar. They’ve enjoyed a couple of hours in the tea time sun. Actually their first ‘night out’ in a year - well deserved. Our takeaway should be here any minute. I’m ravenous!

soop I’m sorry to hear you’re unwell. I hope you feel better soon and that your GP takes extra good care of you. Rest up and get well soon. You’re much loved. x

brook2704 Sat 24-Apr-21 20:31:32

So sorry you’re feeling poorly soop and hope you feel much better again soon, please take care. Thinking also of Panache sending gentle ❤️ to you both
I hope Maws Maisie is able to join her soon and that you’re able to find a new cat soon hellogirl
Sounds like you’ve had a really enjoyable day with the DGC jaxj, I too have had a lovely day today sat in DD2 garden and watching the DGC play. Lots of laughter and happy memories made ..
Back home now exhausted so settling down for a quiet evening - or whatever is left of it
Hope you get a good nights sleep tonight muse and your DS gets in touch soon

Puzzler61 Sat 24-Apr-21 20:10:44

Feel better soon soop ?

annodomini Sat 24-Apr-21 20:10:07

Soop, I am so sorry to hear that you're in such pain and distress. You are very dear to all of us and we need to know that you are getting the very best care.Your GP seems to be on the ball, and hopefully the scan can be arranged sooner rather than later.
Hoping you will have a better night's sleep.xx moon

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