Good Morning everyone.
Hoping today is a better one for everyone and troubles and worries, pain and discomfort has faded a little after rest and a good night’s sleep. Hope too that the weather improves and you can all lift your faces to the sun - at least for some of today ?
I always feel it’s difficult to re-visit a much-loved home once you’ve sold it. . Always too much dramatic change or, worse, neglect (especially for gardens). Sad to see but maybe it takes away any regrets because you had it, loved it, cared for it but now you just have those memories. Once it features in someone else’s life I suppose it’s simply theirs to do whatever they like with! (However it brings on our nervous tics!)
If your first thought is you really don’t want to spend a week hosting your nephew & co., and being a tour guide, gingster then I’d hold that thought. Can’t think of anyone not feeling pleased to be able to use another’s holiday home without them being there. How kind are you! And how nice they feel able to ask. We’ve all shared some pretty hard times over more than a year, so why not tell them straight that you really don’t want to commit to anything at present - you want freedom to come and go wherever and make plans just for yourselves when the mood takes, but if they’d like to borrow the cottage for a week, you’re happy with that. They can perhaps hire a car and be free to travel around. They get their holiday in your lovely home by the sea and you won’t feel resentful that your time is being spent doing anything you’re not truly excited about.
Today I shall iron, take some pittosporum cuttings, make spicy fish cakes for lunch with a salad and take my neglected little car out for a spin this afternoon. We may go to the beach which will hopefully involve ice cream and the dogs will enjoy a romp by the water before their summer ban starts on 1st June until 1st October!
Everyone unwell, sending thoughts and wishing hard for you today and always.
Take care all. Hugs from ?? ????♀️