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Have you ever looked in the mirror and seen .................... your grandmother?

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25Avalon Wed 16-Jun-21 16:53:17

Got a shock the other day. As I was coming in the back door I caught my reflection in the glass and thought that’s my grandmother! My grandmother died when I was 15 so a real flashback out of the blue. I have grown my hair long during lockdown and no longer have a fringe. With a head band on, exposing my forehead and wearing glasses I recognised her immediately. It was uncanny as I never thought I looked like her. Weird.

Gelisajams Fri 18-Jun-21 10:44:24

I’m a female image of my father and my son is the image of him too. It’s strange as my son is the age I best remember my father.

henetha Fri 18-Jun-21 10:44:23

Sorry... I misred the title. No, not my grandmother.

Jaxie Fri 18-Jun-21 10:42:20

Chewbacca you made me laugh out loud. Yes, I look just like Granny Bailey now. I showed a friend a photo of my 22-year-old self: long straight hair, willowy figure, mini skirt, contact lenses and she couldn’t believe it was me.. Now I’m bowed with arthritis, balding, wear glasses, the contours of my legs & body ( I was known as “ Snake hips Bailey” in my youth) lumpy but hey: I’m still here. Granny Bailey died of a heart attack before she reached my age and the drugs are evidently protecting me from a similar fate - provided my husband doesn’t incense me with uncontrollable rage with his shenanigans.

henetha Fri 18-Jun-21 10:42:16

Occasionally, and strangely enough only yesterday. I was combing my hair, put the comb down and just glanced in the mirror again and there was my mother!

lizzypopbottle Fri 18-Jun-21 10:39:22

Yes, I certainly see my mother. Her hands are on the steering wheel as I drive and I see her often in the mirror. The first time I saw my grandmother (paternal), looking back at me, it was a surprise but not unwelcome. People always likened me to my dad. I see him in the mirror too. ?

JdotJ Fri 18-Jun-21 10:38:15

.....my very much missed mum

Shirlb Fri 18-Jun-21 10:37:59

See mum and sister (who always looked like her) is bit scary!!

Grandmadinosaur Thu 17-Jun-21 17:06:33

Yes I do - every time I brush my very thick hair. My hair is the bane of my life but it must me down to my maternal grandmother.
A few days ago we visited MIL who we haven’t seen since last autumn. As we were leaving she was stood at the bottom of her path and I turned round and I saw her mother down to a tee. A bit unnerving at the time. Discussing it with DH and he said he had the same thoughts.

agnurse Thu 17-Jun-21 16:51:06

Close! When I use two mirrors and look at my profile, I have my mother's cheekbones. However, when you look at pictures of my father's female cousins when they were young, you'd swear you were looking at a picture of me. I was showing Hubby a picture of Dad's maternal grandmother when she was a young mother, and according to Hubby I strongly resemble her as a young woman. (Dad's cousins who I resemble are his double first cousins; Grandpa's brother was married to Grandma's sister. Consequently I didn't know which side of his family I most resembled.)

cornergran Thu 17-Jun-21 16:46:20

Not to my grandmother but definitely to my only paternal Aunt. Same eyes, face shape and mouth. We got on well. I liked her.

BlueDahlia Thu 17-Jun-21 16:25:58

It's strange, I always thought I looked like my father as I have his colouring but as I have got older and greyer, I can see that I have the same bone structure, shape of mouth and set of eyes as my mother and grandmother. Still gives me a shock sometimes when I unexpectedly catch my reflection!
I also, going from photographs, have identical (and quite unusually shaped) hands to my great grandmother, which no one else in the family has inherited so far.

B9exchange Thu 17-Jun-21 14:15:39

Yes, just recently, something about the nose and eyes. It was a shock when I saw my mother looking back at me in the mirror, will it be my GGM in a few years time? Not that I ever met her...

Ailidh Thu 17-Jun-21 12:58:23

Yes. Over the last couple of years I seem to have grown my grandmother's ears.

3nanny6 Thu 17-Jun-21 12:36:19

No I have never seen any resemblance to my GM and not even my own mother. I have been told I do look like my mother by other people. My mother always said I looked like my fathers
side of the family.

I have an older cousin who was born near the end of the war.
That cousin has a daughter five years younger than me and we look almost like twins all my friends comment on the likeness.

timetogo2016 Thu 17-Jun-21 12:25:33

I don`t look like my mother or grandmother,yet my Aunt and Uncle says that my mother will never be dead as long as i`m here.
And i still don`t see it.

LadyGracie Thu 17-Jun-21 08:59:04

When I look at my sister I see my mother. When I look in the mirror I see my father.

Mattsmum2 Thu 17-Jun-21 08:32:15

I don’t see my mum in the mirror but feel that I display some of the traits I remember as a child, now that I have children if my own ?

Billybob4491 Thu 17-Jun-21 08:24:54

In answer to your question Avalon - the answer is thankfully no,

Blinko Thu 17-Jun-21 08:06:03

One evening whilst on holiday abroad (those were the days, eh!) DH took my photo, all glammed up, I thought. Well I looked like a strange combination of both my grandmothers. My sister tells me I remind her of our dear Mum. Can't be bad, can it?

Humbertbear Thu 17-Jun-21 07:58:34

I am having dinner with my ‘grandmother’ this evening. In the form of my younger sister. I look like my father. My daughter even complains if I don’t wear nail varnish as she says without colour my hands are identical to his.

Newatthis Thu 17-Jun-21 07:52:08

I see my aunt looking back which is scary.

theworriedwell Wed 16-Jun-21 22:23:12

I see me in the mirror but photos - I see my late mother. It is quite a shock at times, particularly when I accidentally take a photo with my phone and suddenly see my mother unexpectly.

Auntieflo Wed 16-Jun-21 22:15:16

I have never seen a photo of my maternal grandmother, she died when my mum was about 8. But, I do look like my mum.

SueDonim Wed 16-Jun-21 22:09:14

Not me. There are only a few photos of one GM, who died when I was four, and my other GM died 36 years before I was born and there is only one photo, which we don’t actually know is her.

I see my dad and/or my late sister reflected back at me nowadays, although curiously, it’s only ever in one particular mirror we have. ?

annodomini Wed 16-Jun-21 18:41:09

My maternal grandmother had soft curly white hair. I have grown mine in the past year and found that it too is curly. Yes, I do see Granny in the mirror. She suffered from lumbago to which I can also relate. But she was very artistic and did lovely embroidery and I have not inherited those skills.