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I’ve just seen something that has left me feeling very upset and shaky

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Whitewavemark2 Thu 24-Jun-21 14:07:14

Just trolling through twitter when a video popped up showing animals being killed - I didn’t stop to investigate further, but presumably for eating.

But it was dreadful. I eat meat so perhaps do not have any entitlement not to be protected from the reality.

Bit my goodness I can’t get it out of my mind.

fuseta Sat 26-Jun-21 13:08:05

I signed up for veganuary two and a half years ago, which encourages you to give up eating meat for just a month. At the end of the month, I felt so much more energetic and I also learned a lot of new tasty recipes that don't involve meat, so I carried on. DH still eats meat, but we manage very weel. If we are doing a stir fry for example, we have two pans going. He puts chicken in his and I put 'This isn't Chicken' in mine and even he says that mine is just as tasty. I did force myself to watch a couple of videos so that I could see what really went on and it reinforced my opnion that I didn't want to go back to eating dead flesh from any animal. I don't mention it to people very often, as I find people get very defensive, but I have seen a group of 10 meat eaters round at my house devour my vegan shepherds pie!

Whitewavemark2 Sat 26-Jun-21 13:08:33

jaylucy

"Trolling through Twitter" ?

I think the reason it popped up is because I follow the RSBP, RSPCA and dog/puppy photos and videos.

Maremia Sat 26-Jun-21 13:24:25

Vegetarian and vegan food is delicious. You can ease your way in, by first trying the 'substitute' versions, e.g. Swedish meatballs, sausages, burgers. The recipes for these have come such a long way since the Linda McCartney products came on the market. You could start off by trying the vegan restaurant dishes. See if you like them. Read somewhere, but sorry, can't give a reference right now, that by going vegan, you will reduce your carbon footprint by 70%. Yes, I get those disturbing posts too, Whitewave, and it was the wee piggies that got to me first. Have a go GNs. New dawn, new adventures, new recipes.

Theoddbird Sat 26-Jun-21 13:57:49

Interesting. People mention respecting an animal. Surely killing it is not respecting its right to live. I once drove down a road....fields either side. One side were derr the other horses. I found it strange that people here will eat the deer but not the horse. Does this mean that they respect the horse but not the deer? Confused plant eater here.....

HiPpyChick57 Sat 26-Jun-21 14:02:49

It must have been really distressing for you OP to have seen this pop up on your screen and to have it brought to your attention that animals suffer at the hands of people but it’s no more cruel than what cows pigs poultry and sheep suffer at slaughter houses daily throughout the world!
Animals lining up to be murdered can see what’s happening to the ones in front of them. Oh but they’re stunned first I hear you say, in most slaughter houses they don’t have the time to check if every animal is unconscious before slashing their throats and some of them are still alive while hung up to bleed out!
Animals at these places are at the mercy of the people who work there some of whom are cruel to beyond humanity and often torture the animals who are about to lose their lives in such an abhorrent way.
I never needed to watch any of the videos regarding the heinous activity of animal slaughter before becoming vegan but one popped up on my wall a few weeks ago that I was foolish enough to watch where workers were punching and kicking a cow on the slaughter conveyor belt and then laughing at the poor creature’s cries of distress. It was horrendous,I’ll never unhear those terrible sounds. What kind of people could do that to an already terrified sentient being.
In another scene I saw male calves taken from their mothers and physically thrown into the back of trucks ready to be transported off to slaughter again being punched and kicked because they were too slow for the liking of the inhumane pricks putting them on the truck.
Incidentally the mothers cry for their babies when they’re taken off them. It’s heartbreaking.
I don’t know about anyone else but I cannot justify eating meat when such cruelty and suffering goes on in the meat and dairy industry. ??

Jess20 Sat 26-Jun-21 14:16:19

I'm moving towards being vegan as I find excessive cruelty hard to watch and cannot guarantee that any meat I eat is cruelty free. It's not easy but I'm trying. Turning away is cowardly imho and I don't personally want to be in denial of what is involved in meat eating and reliance on animal based products.

MayBee70 Sat 26-Jun-21 14:17:38

So, people are upset at the thought of animals being abused. I understand that. But it’s ok for a person to be traumatised by seeing a horrific video that they didn’t want to see. Some animal rights groups don’t actually want animals to exist at all eg they don’t think that people should have pets. I think peta is one of them. Even animals such as chimpanzees and giant pandas eat some meat.

nanna8 Sat 26-Jun-21 14:27:04

Dogs eat meat and that is one of the reasons most of us don’t eat dogs. Same applies to cats.

vegansrock Sat 26-Jun-21 14:28:42

maybe70 Please let us know what animal rights groups think “some animals should not exist at all” why it is “ok for people to be traumatised” and tell us why that is relevant to this discussion. Just because some extremists think people should not have pets is not really the point, some people think dogfighting and badger baiting and worse are OK, Doesn’t mean everyone does. Surely we should be aware of cruelty in order to minimise it and not turn a blind eye to it. Not saying horrible videos should pop up on Facebook or whatever.

May7 Sat 26-Jun-21 14:44:24

My DH and I refused and were practically force fed vegetables as children. Spending hours at the dinner table looking at cabbage. (Different times I suppose) We never did this to ours and to our surprise they all became vegetarian when they went to Uni. They taught me to cook vegetables differently and showed me alternatives. We continued to eat meat but it became less and less. When I heard and saw the Wet Markets at the beginning of the Covid outbreak it absolutely turned my stomach and DH and I decided to eat only plant based food. What a revelation for us. Feel so much better and have more energy. Still can't eat sprouts whichever way you cook them though ugh grin.
We all have choices at the end of the day. I'm not being smug just explaining what my tipping point was

Hithere Sat 26-Jun-21 14:58:16

May7

Not smug at all

Barmeyoldbat Sat 26-Jun-21 14:59:01

We have chicken and liver about once every month or two, the rest of the time we are vegetarians but we don't buy the ready made meat substitutes as they all seem to contain a high degree of salt, instead I make them from scratch. This all tarted from when we would spend a great deal of time in SE Asia and saw the how animals were treated and sold in the markets. I won't go into details as it would make your stomach churn.

HiPpyChick57 Sat 26-Jun-21 15:10:42

Jess20 No meat is cruelty free.
Killing a sentient being is cruel.
Why should something have to die to feed me.
Well done for trying to be vegan. All the best for your vegan journey it’s not as hard as you would think. ??

MaggieMay69 Sat 26-Jun-21 15:42:42

I cannot stand animal cruelty, but like many others, I choose to eat meat, and I have wonderful inner peace thanks Elderly person. I am so happy that you have found your inner peace becoming vegan, but my inner peace is when my extremely skin n bone granddaughter who has been poorly finally eats her chicken soup, or even half of a ham sandwich...
Vegan isn't for everyone, though like most we do the best we can to buy as humanely as we can.
I guess I find my peace by thinking even if I stopped overnight enjoying me bacon, they wouldn't stop the meat trade!

ElderlyPerson Sat 26-Jun-21 16:09:14

NoddingGanGan

@ElderlyPerson, your diet has never cost the life of an animal? Never eaten oyster mushrooms? What about the pesticides used in crop growing? Don't insects count as animals? Or the animals further up the food chain that have had their food (the insects) stolen by the plant eating humans? When I was a child you couldn't drive a few miles down the road in the summer without the windscreen of the car becoming covered in bugs. Now there's hardly any!
I totally respect anyone's decision to become vegan but the only way to truly help the planet is to eat within one's own ecosystem, eat less meat and waste nothing. We can't keep growing crops without the fertilizer supplied by the herbivores we are perfectly formed to digest as part of our diet putting back the nutrients we strip from the soil with our crop growing. Without them, we must resort to more and more chemicals. Vegetables force grown under miles and miles of plastic then shipped halfway around the world by plane are not good for the planet, not good for the ecosystem and not good for animal life generally, not just humans.

Alas no, I was not always vegan. Just accepted it as the indoctrination gets into us all our lives.

But no murdered animal body eaten since around 1990 and totally vegan since 1997 or so when I gave up fish and dairy.

I have not met the term oyster mushroom. I have eaten mushrooms but not for years. Not due to any vegan issue, just found them difficult to digest.

A lot of my food is organic.

The only grains I have are rice, usually basmati. This is because I avoid gluten.

In addition to being vegan for ethical reasons - though it may possibly also be masking a possible lactose intolerance - I am also on a restricted diet for medical reasons, but my diet has been checked out and approved by a hospital dietician after I requested a referral from my doctor to make sure I had got it right.

Alas gluten-free vegan is squeezed out. It falls between two stools.

Lots of these new vegan ready meals have wheat in them, there is no need to do so in many of them.

But I have never been wilfully cruel, just the opposite in fact.

For example, if a fly gets in the house, I let it out the window, I don't hurt it as some people would.

Always have done.

Lilyflower Sat 26-Jun-21 16:49:57

What a pity that someone seeing a distressing picture has led to unsolicited evangelising from vegan and vegetarian posters.

The reference to veganism as a protected belief is a timely reminder that it is an opinion with which others might differ. I say might differ but vegans still only number 1.2 per cent of the population so it is clear that the other 87 per cent of the non vegetarian and vegan have their opinions too but are tolerant and refrain from being the JW’s of the comestible world.

Peasblossom Sat 26-Jun-21 16:56:53

Actually elderlyperson when I was travelling in the East, the slaughter of birds to keep them off the rice was quite traumatic.

They did eat the birds. But we eat the rice?

Harmonypuss Sat 26-Jun-21 17:11:17

To those of you banging on about how 'easy' it is to change one's eating habits....

In some cases (such as mine) it's not only not 'easy' but actually impossible for some people to go vegan or even vegetarian.

I am allergic to/intolerant of the majority of vegetables, so without meat, eggs, dairy etc, I would have very little to live on, so please, don't make out that it's a simple choice for everyone.

I can't bear the idea of any type of animal mistreatment and can't bring myself to even look at any tv adverts for badly treated animals from around the world as well as here in the uk but I do accept that certain animals are breed to be used for food and that we here in the UK do at least have stringent rules about the ways in which they must be cared for and prepared for our food.

ElderlyPerson Sat 26-Jun-21 17:13:36

Peasblossom

Actually elderlyperson when I was travelling in the East, the slaughter of birds to keep them off the rice was quite traumatic.

They did eat the birds. But we eat the rice?

Thank you for that. I did not know.

Sawsage2 Sat 26-Jun-21 17:17:58

Did we really need to know the barbaric methods they use to kill the dogs!?

Amandajs66 Sat 26-Jun-21 19:13:56

I watched a few videos similar to the one you mention and couldn’t get them from my mind. We can’t unsee certain things.
And that’s why I’ve been a vegan for a few years.
There’s no difference between the life of a dog or a cow, every animal deserves to live.

Amandajs66 Sat 26-Jun-21 19:18:44

Harmonypuss

To those of you banging on about how 'easy' it is to change one's eating habits....

In some cases (such as mine) it's not only not 'easy' but actually impossible for some people to go vegan or even vegetarian.

I am allergic to/intolerant of the majority of vegetables, so without meat, eggs, dairy etc, I would have very little to live on, so please, don't make out that it's a simple choice for everyone.

I can't bear the idea of any type of animal mistreatment and can't bring myself to even look at any tv adverts for badly treated animals from around the world as well as here in the uk but I do accept that certain animals are breed to be used for food and that we here in the UK do at least have stringent rules about the ways in which they must be cared for and prepared for our food.

Harmonypuss,
I feel for you, I’ve just been diagnosed with a disease and I’ve been told by my consultant that I have to cut out all food that provides fibre.
Not easy as all my diet consists of veg, fruit, lentils, beans etc..
I am vegan, will I go back to eating meat, eggs and dairy because I can’t eat much else.
No I won’t.

vegansrock Sat 26-Jun-21 19:26:29

For most humans it’s perfectly possible to live healthily without eating animal products. There are some who find it difficult/ impossible. It’s a choice some are are lucky to be able to make.

Mollygo Sat 26-Jun-21 21:15:48

For those who have chosen to be vegan or even vegetarian it’s ideal. They are eating food they enjoy without constant criticism.
I can’t eat foods with soya in (means a lot of reading lists) so can’t eat some vegan foods. I like vegetables but I don’t enjoy all vegan alternatives, even when prepared by vegan experts.
A lady I work with is vegan. How do I know? Not because she proudly announces how long she’s been vegan or why. Not because she lectures us on the evils of meat eating. Simply because she made the most delicious chocolate cake with olive oil and we all asked for the recipe and why she had made it like that. Maybe a few ‘delicious’ recipes would be more convincing.

Hithere Sat 26-Jun-21 21:27:23

"For those who have chosen to be vegan or even vegetarian it’s ideal. They are eating food they enjoy without constant criticism."

That's not true, unfortunately

My now cut off narc parents were soooooooo worried when I went veggie they tried everything to sabotage my choice for "the sake of my health"

I have been questioned by other people why I pick such an "unhealthy" diet as human beings "need meat".
I have been accused of neglecting my kids for following a veggie diet.

I dont preach, I don't try to convert anybody, don't announce my choice to the world expecting kudos - just let me be, as I also respect your choices