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phoenix Fri 06-Aug-21 17:14:54

To see that Mawbe had posted a birthday message to me on Wednesday 4th August!

I had quite a few surprises that day!smile When Mr P opened the front door to let Oliver Sprout in (he was rather a soggy moggy, his own fault for for going out in the rain. He does it because he likes being rubbed dry!)

But I digress. Mr P said "I think you'd better come and have a look. So being in an affable sort of mood, I did.

Well, you could have knocked me down with a Tena Lady wrapper!

There was a cluster of balloons with helium numbers 6 &3 attached, a rather small balloon arch (handy if you were expecting a visit from a troop of little people, which I believe is the correct term to use, and a good hostess should always be ready to cater for all types of guest. None arrived though.confused ) and a beautiful plant.

Later a friend arrived with a delicious apple and almond tray bake, complete with candles and sparklers! grin, then another friend with flowers and champagne!

I had lots of cards (more than usual) and Mr P cooked a delicious mealsmile

It really was a fabulous birthday, which was great, because you see it will be my last.

I was diagnosed with terminal cancer back in mid December and despite the best efforts of all staff involved, the prognosis given during my last consultation in July, was that I had about 3 months sad

I won't bore you with details of the various treatments I had, but will reassure you that I'm still pottering about and enjoying what I do.smile

Please don't inundate me with PM's. I would feel that I had to respond to each one,and my time and energy have to be used carefully these days (quite interesting planning ones own funeral though wink ) but I will read any posts on this thread.

With love, and every good wish for a successful gammon at Christmas!

phoenix

xxxxw

Jaxjacky Sun 15-Aug-21 08:10:46

Your post nailed it Doodle.
phoenix ?x

NannyJan53 Sun 15-Aug-21 07:54:55

Love to you phoenix

Wonderful post Doodle so sums up how I think we are all feeling.

Marydoll Sun 15-Aug-21 07:47:32

Please read Kitty's post, the party will NOT go ahead! sad

Nana3 Sun 15-Aug-21 07:38:24

I hope the sun is shining on you in Devon, have a wonderful day. ??? Wishing you all the luck in the world Phoenix ?

shysal Sun 15-Aug-21 07:29:18

I don't have the words to express how I feel about your news sad. Sending you much love, and birthday wishes. flowers

harrigran Sun 15-Aug-21 07:11:49

Oh that is sad, I was hoping to hear that it was going ahead ?

kittylester Sun 15-Aug-21 06:55:19

I think that phoenix party has been cancelled. sad

NotAGran55 Sun 15-Aug-21 06:33:07

Have a wonderful time today Phoenix . Hoping to hear a tale or two! grin

Riverwalk Sun 15-Aug-21 06:25:54

I hope you enjoy your special day phoenix.

Lots of love flowers

FarNorth Sun 15-Aug-21 01:09:06

Wishing you a wonderful time at your 'event' Phoenix.
Thank you for all your contributions to Gransnet. ?

nanna8 Sun 15-Aug-21 00:41:52

Phoenix, best wishes to you and I love your name because it is so positive,just like you. ❤️

Marydoll Sun 15-Aug-21 00:36:51

What a lovely post, Doodle. ?

Doodle Sun 15-Aug-21 00:24:08

phoenix I can’t believe I missed this thread on Friday.
I’ve been hoping you would come back and post soon but of course I was hoping it would be with better news.
You are one of the first posters I tuned into on GN and I want to thank you for all the laughter, fun and humour you have given us over the years.
I’m so sorry to hear that despite the treatment your prognosis is not good. I’m so saddened and shocked by your post.
Typical of you, lovely lady that you are, to present your news with humour and no trace of self pity.
Your lovely tales and stories will long live on in our memories. You have made me laugh so much.
I glad you enjoyed your birthday and hope you continue to post as and when you can.
Take care and much love to you, MrP and Oliver Sprout and Minnie. x

V3ra Sun 15-Aug-21 00:04:04

Awww Phoenix..... thinking of you xx

Georgesgran Sat 14-Aug-21 23:57:03

Just ? for you. X

Spinnaker Sat 14-Aug-21 23:39:44

Kindest thoughts Phoenix and fingers crossed you're able to enjoy your bit of an 'event' tomorrow ❤ flowers

Aldom Sat 14-Aug-21 23:37:41

Nite, nite Phoenix Thinking of you and hoping you are well enough to enjoy your party tomorrow.

Luckygirl Sat 14-Aug-21 22:52:10

I hope that you will be feeling up to your celebration tomorrow. I will be thinking of you. flowers

Deedaa Sat 14-Aug-21 22:32:26

Hope this is just a blip Phoenix I've got the family round for lunch tomorrow and will have a little drink for you [flowers}

dragonfly46 Sat 14-Aug-21 22:21:02

My thoughts are with you too Phoenix.

Mollygo Sat 14-Aug-21 22:14:22

Thinking of you, Phoenix and sending hugs.?

GrannyGravy13 Sat 14-Aug-21 22:12:55

Phoenix thinking of you sweetie ❤️

Hellogirl1 Sat 14-Aug-21 21:56:58

Love and best wishes Phoenix, I hope you`re well enough for your party tomorrow.

Pittcity Sat 14-Aug-21 19:34:28

I hear you are not too good today Phoenix.
We are all here for you x

Kalu Thu 12-Aug-21 15:25:22

A truly lovely post JulieNoted❤️