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Doodle Wed 11-Aug-21 15:55:20

I read in the news paper this morning that the smiley face emoji can be seen as patronising or passive aggressive by teenagers and people in their twenties.
Older people use the emojis for what they appear to show while the younger generation use it sarcastically.
It also seems that the ? emoji is used by those over 30 while it has been replaced for the younger generation by the skull and crossbones ☠️ Meaning, I’m laughing so hard I’m dying.
Using full stops in messages is seen as abrupt or passive aggressive too.
As a great user of ……….… and smiley faces, I wish to apologise now to all I may have offended ? …….oops done it again ?

4allweknow Thu 12-Aug-21 18:10:22

Those who make up the nonsensical meanings of the emojs totally misconstrueing the pictorial design are showing how stupid they are. If they saw a picture showing a plate with say meat, potatoes and veg would they construe that not to be food but excrement; a glass of beer as being urine or perhaps an addiction substance. Ignore the idiots and continue using emojs as they had been intended.

Edith81 Thu 12-Aug-21 18:26:50

I have to say that one of the most irritating things for me is bad grammar and spelling. What!! No full stops?? When I text,it’s the same as writing a letter,and I ask my GC to do the same, which they do.

Rosina Thu 12-Aug-21 18:26:54

I am becoming firmly convinced that there is a movement to undermine every word we utter, every thought in our heads, every move we make, until we are all standing, petrified, unable to function. I am utterly sick of reading silly news about cancelling, hurt feelings, perceived insults, apologies being made by grovelling authors for perfectly reasonable text in their books - it is just too much, and I do wonder who generates this absolute nonsense, who encourages it - and why.

GreenGran78 Thu 12-Aug-21 18:52:10

I shall continue to use correct grammar and punctuation in my messages, and if anyone doesn’t like it, or the emojis I use....too bad! I can’t keep up with the constant changes, especially all the politically correct rubbish. I see people being criticised in the press, or social media, for saying something that seems perfectly innocuous to me. The world is going mad!
I WAS amused, though, by the story of someone seeing their parent typing an email sending sympathy about someone who had died, and ending the message with LOL. On expressing their horror, it turned out that they thought that it stood for ‘lots of love!’

Janetashbolt Thu 12-Aug-21 19:00:55

I use proper punctuation, full stops included and can't stand emojis so never use them so I'm only half PA.

Kim19 Thu 12-Aug-21 19:06:20

Thank you Elegran. I would never have worked that one out!

Doodle Thu 12-Aug-21 20:37:18

Being of an innocent nature, I had no idea why anyone would be offended by an aubergine emoji or actually under what circumstances one might use it. I looked it up on Google blush ……the youth of today .

Lilyflower Fri 13-Aug-21 05:18:31

Perfect grammar and punctuation are a silent, social marker and it is a sign of how the middle class code is being diluted that new social groups are becoming, let us say tactfully, ‘democratised’, if they are arguing that inaccuracy of expression is to be preferred over a command of the language.

My adult children speak and write accurate Standard English as they were taught to do.

Saetana Fri 13-Aug-21 07:57:38

Frankly I do not care if someone misunderstands my emojis - I am not here to pander to the younger generation, if they are so tone deaf then....

Aepgirl Fri 13-Aug-21 08:05:07

What is it with ‘not allowed’ or ‘offensive’ these? days. I’m sick of being told ‘you can’t say that any more’, or ‘that isn’t acceptable now’.