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soop Sat 14-Aug-21 18:07:59

Here we are yet again,
Happy as we can be...
All good friends and jolly good company.

WELCOME to our very own kitchen in which we celebrate happy occasions and support each other through the difficult times. flowers sunshine smile

soop Mon 16-Aug-21 13:01:11

chicken Good news for you to celebrate.

N&G We all look forward to hearing news of those lovely, cheeky boys with their winning smiles.

I almost forgot to mention that...*Sweetie Pie* visited a short time after Baggs departed for her home.
AND, she returned last evening too. She ate an enormous meal, lolled on the mat, had a thorough wash and brush up and then, in her own time, she wandered away through the forest. Did she raise a grin? You bet.

soop Mon 16-Aug-21 13:02:40

dragonfly A virtual comforting arm around your shoulders. x

chicken Mon 16-Aug-21 13:24:26

*Susan",I send you my deepest sympathy in your loss.Your FiL sounded such a lovely gentle man.Sorry this message is late___we were somewhat overwhelmed by events yesterday.
I'm so sorry to hearPhoenix's sad news. She's given us such fun over the years,turning domestic and work disasters into hilarious tales. I hope that her remaining time is filled with comfort and love.

SueDonim Mon 16-Aug-21 13:27:59

I’m so sorry, Susan and Dragonfly. flowers

chicken that must be a huge relief. X

Yiayia4 Mon 16-Aug-21 15:26:31

Hello new kitchen.I have coffee and walnut cake for you all lots of calories but who’s counting!
Like all of us my thoughts are with Phoenix, I loved her entertaining,funny posts and hope she is comfortable?
So sorry for your loss Susan and family?
Dragonfly?
Well today I feel human again, Although the antibiotics I had worked well the side effects were horrendous!!I now have different ones and will soon be running (hobbling)around again.?
Take care dear Kitcheners life is so short, see you tomorrow.

soop Mon 16-Aug-21 15:36:08

Yiayia It is most thoughtful of you to bake us a delicious cake. Thank you. I'm also happy to hear that different antbio's are doing a better job of getting you up and running hobbling again. All we ask is that there is some progress. Feeling unwell is a major buggeration. flowers

brook2704 Mon 16-Aug-21 16:11:41

Thank you so much yia the cake is delicious and good that you’re feeling a bit better

Thinking a lot today of phoenix and her family ?

Good news for you chicken such a relief I expect

Exciting times ahead nanaandgrampy, hope you have lots of fun times with the little boys. Hope Sams paw is better soon too

We’ve just dropped the DGC back home after a busy day today at a forest play park. They’re back at school tomorrow so we really enjoyed our last day out with them for a while. I’m having a very short rest with a cuppa before getting ready for my flight later. I’m on the easyJet Inverness to Luton flight to visit DD1 and my other two DGC in Cambridge - another busy week ahead - not complaining though

Will pop back to the kitchen later

GrannyGravy13 Mon 16-Aug-21 17:07:08

Sorry to hear so much sad news in the kitchen.
I am always behind with all your news.

Gravy Grange is full at the moment, eldest AC & wife are on their last day of quarantine here (home from 2years in Kenya) so far all their PCR tests have come back negative.
DD is house hunting so has also moved in for awhile, it’s noisy and busy but I feel fortunate to have them all here.

Thinking of dear Phoenix and her family ?

SueDonim Mon 16-Aug-21 17:14:30

Our family holiday has just been cancelled! ? It’s for nine of us in a SC house in Yorkshire. We’re due to go on Friday but the rental agency has just been informed today that the house has been sold and is no longer available. I’m so angry, how dare people behave like that? angry

The agency has no other suitable properties and I cannot imagine we’ll get anywhere else at four days notice. ?

Grandmabatty Mon 16-Aug-21 17:20:00

Yiayia coffee and walnut cake is one of my favourites. Suedonim that's really rotten! I'm angry on your behalf. Brooke have a lovely family catch up.
A day of babysitting is over and I'm having a seat before I assemble my chicken casserole and stick it in the oven. I'm thinking of all those with worries and particularly Phoenix and her family.

soop Mon 16-Aug-21 17:20:22

SueDonim That is shocking. What a bloody awful way to treat people and not offer an alternative. I am very angry on your behalf.

soop Mon 16-Aug-21 17:23:32

I've packed Hello's Billy painting and it will be posted tomorrow.

I apologise for being a bit down; the news of Phoenix, a lovely, feisty Gransnetter, has knocked me for six.

I send love to you all and will be with you again tomorrow. smile moon

brook2704 Mon 16-Aug-21 17:26:29

SueDonim that’s really awful, I feel for you all as I know how precious family holidays are. I’d be so disappointed and angry in your shoes too.
It’s going to be hard to find an alternative at such short notice but maybe have a look on Airbnb - they might have something
Or possibly look for two smaller properties at the same location via Hoseasons or an agency like that?
Really hope you find something- please let us know - fingers crossed for you all

BladeAnnie Mon 16-Aug-21 17:30:23

Good afternoon dear kitcheners - there is such a lot of sadness around atm, sending gentle hugs to all in need of a little comfort. We had a busy week last week with DGD (who became a big sister a week ago today), turning a big grown up "2" on Saturday. One of her gifts was a mini trampoline/bouncer and as soon as Mr BA took it out of the packaging to put it together, look who took up residence there!! Not even a box this time just a sheet of cardboard suited Duncan just fine ?

Blossoming Mon 16-Aug-21 17:55:09

Good evening lovely Kitcheners. I’m glad you’re feeling better YiaYia. Thanks for the walnut cake, how scrumptious and perfect with cafe

SueDonim that’s awful, hope you can get something sorted at such short notice.

My daily rehab walk took me around the Marina, they have a new beer garden and beach huts where they serve breakfast, lunch and afternoon tea. They look lovely, I shall have to treat Mr. B one day soon. I’m exhausted by the time I return home, and am finding it hard to juggle tasks these days. I used to have so much more energy! I suppose we all did, really.

Have a peaceful evening and may all troubles ease.

annodomini Mon 16-Aug-21 19:53:03

What a lot to take in, since I last came into the kitchen yesterday, so forgive me if I miss anyone's news. Susan56, I am so sad for you and for your husband. The joy we have in our grandchildren is tempered by the grief we have in loss. My sympathy to all but specially your DH - it's hard to lose a parent.
SuDonim, I feel very indignant on your behalf! At a time when we all need a holiday, to have it snatched away at such short notice is heartbreaking. I hope you do find a way to get a break, though so many people have the same idea at the moment.
An unusually busy Monday which started with a visit to the chiropodist. Lovely to have comfy feet! Out later to meet a friend at a local garden centre, for a long chat and a brew. My good neighbours had invited me to join them for a cake and some fizz to celebrate their little girl's 3rd birthday. It was great to have lots of hugs from the birthday girl who brought countless toys for my inspection and allowed me to wear her tiara. How I miss having small GC! The gluten-and dairy-free cake was delicious...and filling! One flute of bubbly makes me dopey these days, but have now recovered.

dragonfly46 Mon 16-Aug-21 20:00:56

That’s rotten SuDonim. Family holidays are so precious. I hope you find something else.

Jaxjacky Mon 16-Aug-21 20:12:50

Thank you for the cake Yia pleased you’re feeling better. Blossoming you’re doing a brilliant job with your walks and lovely picture, thank you.
That Duncan is a scamp!
Sue words fail me, appalling how despicable of them. Good stuff with finishing the picture soop.
I too feel a palpable air of sadness.
May you all enjoy your evening with an added zest for life and tomorrow x

Chewbacca Mon 16-Aug-21 20:17:56

SueDonim If you've paid a deposit, or more, there is a legally binding contract. It might be worth checking the Terms & Conditions on your booking form to see if they have to compensate you in any way. Should be under the bit about cancellations and the required notice period for either party.

SueDonim Mon 16-Aug-21 20:30:35

Thank you for all the holiday woes sympathy. We’ve pretty much accepted our holiday has gone. There’s nothing available anywhere at four days notice anywhere apart from a couple of AirB&B’s for £8000+. ?

Chewbacca we’ll get our money back plus 10% compensation but considering they’ve had that money since the start of the year, it’s not much comfort.

I suppose worse things happen at sea but when you’ve spent so long planning it all and it’s something that happens only rarely, it’s so infuriating. I don’t know how people can live with themselves, being so dishonourable.

Chewbacca Mon 16-Aug-21 20:33:38

Name and shame SueDonim so that we can avoid them. They sound dreadful, I'd like to avoid them.

Blossoming Mon 16-Aug-21 20:57:42

Thank you JaxJacky, how are Imogen and family doing?

Jaxjacky Mon 16-Aug-21 21:42:10

Blossoming no more seizures ?, expecting EEG appointment soon, consultant Oct, both Imogen and DD over their Covid, Finley has sailed through it, as 8 year olds do. Very thoughtful of you to ask x

Grandmafrench Mon 16-Aug-21 22:02:11

Good Evening lovely Kitchen peeps!

Trying to catch up with everyone's news.
Chicken what a relief. You must have been frantic. Looking at the news photographs today, it's the saddest thing. What a disgrace and a betrayal of lives.

Glad you are portrait-up-to-date today, soop and that there is good news of little Sweetie Pie. You don't say if she has gained any weight. Do hope so and that her presence is a cheery influence on your life when you need it.
Good to hear you have had a busy day and benefitted, anno. Little tots at that age are filled with such cheeriness, it's quite uplifting isn't it. You talk about comfy feet, how is the face problem? Did you get your bcc sorted and are you o.k.?
Life sounds as if it's lots better Yia. Antibiotics in doing so much good, do flatten our immune systems, don't they, so hopefully you have something now which agrees with you. Get properly well soon! BA Duncan and cats are like children - they're happiest with a box! He gets more handsome - and laid back by the day.

Brook have the happiest of times in Cambridge - even though you are bravely getting there on the magic metal carpet!!! ( ?). Well, you know me and planes........
A happy reunion with the GC's to you.
I don't know much about your Rehab plan, Blossoming but do hope you are not doing too much too fast. If you feel really exhausted after exercise, perhaps you could do less in the house? You know, pay someone to do all the heavy work so you can perhaps drift around with a feather duster or just deadhead a few flowers if/when the mood takes you. Seriously, take it steadily. I'm sure you want to be fully fit as soon as you can but baby steps might be fairly sensible until you build up your strength again. And remember, time wasted in those beach huts would never be time wasted!!?. Hope you're o.k. Jax and that you are not worrying too much, dragon. Things will get better.

You said it yourself, Sood, you don't know how people live with themselves, they're so dishonourable. Indeed! I can't think of any phrase rude enough to describe anyone who could do that. They've had your money all this time - or more likely the Agency has and wouldn't release it until the last moment. The so-called contract is always weighed heavily against you in that you are punished if you don't pay on time or change your mind and want to cancel. But any fly by night holiday home owners can seemingly do as they like and no matter that you would all have been looking forward to something which was booked in good faith and is now not going to happen. And even if it was possible, this year, to find reasonably priced accommodation, you're not going to find anything in less than a week.

I have a small holiday cottage. I never bothered to rent it out last year. At the start of this year, I told everyone who enquired that I simply could not stand the on/off/on/off drama and would not be taking deposits for holidays from anyone. It simply wouldn't work and I didn't want to be part of people's disappointment. I felt much better without that sort of responsibility whilst we've all been trying to guess what might happen for so long now.

Just to lighten your mood a little, I have suffered a slightly different drama when I bought a property which had a gite in the grounds. We wanted that for my Mum and for the family for holidays. The guys who sold the house - in France - had lots of bookings and on the day we completed and only then when we were handed the keys were we told about it. They had obviously spent the deposits and had no interest in cancelling the holidays months before, so just let us find out when it was too late. We spent our first months in our new home running around on some demanding foreign tourists who had actually been before and knew more about the property than we did. We NEVER wanted to run a holiday home, we just wanted some peace and quiet in the countryside. Instead, I ran about like an idiot making sure that all was as it should be for guests, and we lived out of packing cases and a new challenge or drama every day for the entire summer.
My language comprised quite a few new words by the time the summer was over! What we should have done, of course, was calmly told the Notaire, in front of the vendors, that we had no knowledge or interest in any contract that they might have made with people for booked holidays, there was no mention of it in the contract for sale so .... nuffink doing! But we imagined distraught Parisiens (one of whom arrived with a parrot, I kid you not) frantic and deprived of their annual hols, so we adopted a British stiff upper lip and just got on with it. Happy days ?!?!?!?!?!

Maybe you can actually plan something better for half term, when things might be cheaper and with less demand for bookings? A big family knees up should not be denied you.
Onwards and upwards and good luck!

Sleep well, dear peeps. Tomorrow will be better - it often is. Oh forgot to say, baked a really delicious Chocolate Amaretti cake. Turned it out, burned my wrist (don't ask) DROPPED the b*£^@y cake on the table! Managed to laugh - if a trifle hysterically. My coffee guests will eat it tomorrow morning. I shall be unrepentant about its condition - it looks a lot like roadkill, but they'll be kind once they get to taste it....and I've covered it with cream!

Nighty night from France where today's weather has been more manageable, only 30 degrees and with a fantastic wind off the mountains. Dried a lot of laundry, created a lot of ironing. ( Something not quite right about that phrase, I feel.)

Big hugs,
and good wishes to all, including dear Panache and Izabella and Susan. GrandmaB you better be feeling better! x

Hellogirl1 Mon 16-Aug-21 23:18:36

SueDonim, I`m not surprised you`re angry, you must be spitting feathers! How anyone with a conscience can do that, I don`t know.
Soop, I`m on pins, dying to see Billy`s portrait!
So sad to read the latest news about Phoenix, she will be so much missed.

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