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Are your hands as soft as your face?

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TillyTrotter Sun 05-Sept-21 09:20:22

Remembering the old Fairy liquid advert and tune “? hands that do dishes can feel soft as your face …. ?) do you look after your hands?
I’ve come back from holiday with soft hands and want to keep them that way as often they are as rough as a builder’s!
I’ve bought Marigold gloves as a start but what products do you buy / tips do you have to keep your hands looking young and soft please?

M0nica Sun 05-Sept-21 09:36:18

Sit around all day with your hands stuck in a bowl of hand cream

Seriously, who ever had hands as soft as their face? The nature of the skin on each organ is different, one usually has a layer of fat under it, the other doesn't, at least, not on the palm of the hand.

I have very dry skin so usually wear marigolds for any household task involving liquids and have done since I started my first flat share, and when I wash my hands i put handcream on. The main purpose of that is simply to avoid the very unpleasant feel of dry hands, rather than achieve some ignorant male copywriters idea of what women want.

dustyangel Sun 05-Sept-21 09:54:37

Yet again I agree with Monica. I do almost exactly the same.

ayse Sun 05-Sept-21 10:00:35

Avoid Fairy liquid and go for one of the cheaper varieties. Fairy just makes my hands sore and itchy. Use gloves now and again gut that’s all.

TillyTrotter Sun 05-Sept-21 10:00:49

Monica you missed my sense of humour with a title I thought would catch people’s attention. I’m unsure why you bothered replying to be honest,
but thank you anyway.

Nell8 Sun 05-Sept-21 10:27:04

I have a pack of disposable gloves which fit like a second skin. The tight wrists make a very satisfying snapping noise as I pull them on. They're great for scaring DH when I loom over him like the nurse from hell and say I'm about to perform a procedure ...

TillyTrotter Sun 05-Sept-21 10:50:23

?? my DH would run a mile Nell .

Aldom Sun 05-Sept-21 10:52:59

Excellent post, full of helpful advice MOnica. I thought ideas for keeping hands in good condition was what OP asked for. Your opening paragraph was humorous, I thought. smileflowers

Granmarderby10 Sun 05-Sept-21 11:00:38

?? Does anyone remember Palmolive washing up liquid? One old tv ad had a salon customer happily soaking her cuticles in a container of this.

jaylucy Sun 05-Sept-21 11:12:07

I think sometimes you spend a silly amount on face cream, in the hope that it will turn back time , but begrudge spending more on handcream than a couple of quid!
I have been advised several times to wear cotton gloves /socks on hands and feet over a layer of hand or foot cream, but apart from one time when I found that both hands and feet became so hot in the middle of the night and kept me awake, that I have never done it since!
I always use Marigolds for washing up and wet cleaning and even peeling potatoes because I get contact dermatitis if I don't ! I also use own brand washing up liquid - recently bought Fairy and it quite honestly isn't worth the extra money!
I too remember Palmolive washing up liquid and have seen it still available in some small shops, but what about Meadow Fresh that not only was supposed to wash dishes squeaky clean, but act as an air freshener ! (Still available in Savers shops!)

DanniRae Sun 05-Sept-21 11:21:33

I vividly remember my mum looking at her hands and comparing them to my beautiful, smooth young hands. Now I know why she was sad to no longer have youthful hands - mine now look like hers did then hmm
I can't complain however because I rarely use rubber gloves and never use hand cream.......shock

FannyCornforth Sun 05-Sept-21 11:34:19

Tilly
I hope that Monica doesn’t mind me speaking for her, but I tend to think that her tone of exasperation wasn't directed at you, but at the advert’s daft premise smile
It is so easy to get the wrong end of the stick on here, I’m forever doing it

May7 Sun 05-Sept-21 11:41:16

I use Neutrogena hand cream. It feels more like a barrier cream than a hand cream. Anyway it works for me. Cant bear the feel of Marigolds so never wear them but will force my hands into gardening gloves.

FannyCornforth Sun 05-Sept-21 11:54:18

I always wear Marigolds. The worst feeling for me, is when you get some water inside and it goes cold and icky. Bleurgh

Blossoming Sun 05-Sept-21 12:43:13

My hands are as soft as my face, thanks to my Marigolds, long handled cleaning things, Mr. B doing the majority of the work, tough gardening gloves and copious amounts of hand lotion. I’m being very careful with them since the awful Stevens
Johnson Syndrome last year when they blistered and all the skin peeled off.

Callistemon Sun 05-Sept-21 13:01:26

I always use Marigolds for washing up and wet cleaning and even peeling potatoes because I get contact dermatitis if I don't!

JayLucy I can sympathise.
Hand sanitisers, especially the ones outside shops, have given me contact dermatitis and it is proving very difficult to get rid of.
The DGC got red, sore hands (one gets eczema) from hand sanitiser and the nasty soap provided in school.

I find Neal's Yard hand cream good although it is expensive.

TillyTrotter Sun 05-Sept-21 13:01:56

That sounds awful *Blossoming^. Our skin is a very sensitive organ isn’t it?
Thank you Fanny , if a stick has 2 ends, yup, I get the wrong end ?
I’m going to get a Poppit (on) gloves holder for when they are not in use so they stay dry inside instead of in a pool of water at the side of the sink. ??

Callistemon Sun 05-Sept-21 13:07:57

Blossoming

My hands are as soft as my face, thanks to my Marigolds, long handled cleaning things, Mr. B doing the majority of the work, tough gardening gloves and copious amounts of hand lotion. I’m being very careful with them since the awful Stevens
Johnson Syndrome last year when they blistered and all the skin peeled off.

It does sound awful, Blossoming, I had a similar reaction many years ago when I was on a certain medication.
? ok since.

Jaxjacky Sun 05-Sept-21 13:13:19

Interesting everyone says Marigolds, the brand, a bit like we say hoover. There are collection points for said gloves as they’re not biodegradable. I don’t use gloves, not even for gardening, unless it’s something particularly scratchy, like brambles and remember hand cream rarely, but my hands aren’t too bad.

Charleygirl5 Sun 05-Sept-21 13:18:12

TillyTrotter my answer is to do as little as possible and if you have a DH at home, maybe get him to immerse his hands in water and wash the dishes if you do not possess a dishwasher.

My hands are beautifully soft and the only time I apply anything is when the frosty weather appears.

JaneJudge Sun 05-Sept-21 13:24:27

in a word NO grin my hands are not as soft as my face BUT have you seen these?? You can get them for your feet too. Asda seems to loads of different brands of them

GrannyGravy13 Sun 05-Sept-21 13:36:05

I never wear rubber gloves, rarely wear gardening gloves, apply hand cream during the day when I remember, but I do apply a rich hand cream every night without fail.

My hands seem to be fairly soft and my nails are longish

TillyTrotter Sun 05-Sept-21 13:46:27

I’ll try some of those JaneJudge. Thanks.

Ailidh Sun 05-Sept-21 13:53:29

Increasingly I start to wo der if my face will fell as soft as my hands - I'm becoming somewhat leathery-complexioned. Partly with having lost weight, partly with being 66.
Eheu, fugaces.....

Calendargirl Sun 05-Sept-21 13:54:05

Always wear rubber gloves when washing up etc. Now use the Marigold black gardening ones for that as the yellow ones last no time at all.

Put Vaseline Intensive Care hand cream on every night. Nails on left hand strongish and fairly long, unlike my (much used) right hand.

Never apply face cream. Hands and face feel similar, not sure if that’s good or bad.