Male companionship

This thread made me think if Cilla Black, who, once widowed, had a host of male mates to escort her - Paul O'Grady, Dale Winton, Christopher Biggins.

I have male friends and still do we treat each other as equals they are like brothers. I have known them most of my life and I would trust them with my life.

I have friends both male and female and it is the fact that they are friends that is important not their gender.

They are few & far between I find & these days seem to be looking for a carer.
Good luck though.

My best friend of over 40 years is male, we both have heterosexual partners of over 20 years. But we still go out for a drink together, discuss shared interests, sometimes shared history as we both worked for the same company. I have more male friends than female, never a sniff of anything other than being mates.

My best friend was a male colleague I worked with when I was young. He was a lot older than me I left work to have my children. I decided not to go back it was my original intention. We stayed good friends for over thirty years until he died I adored him. Someone here said it's not about whether it's a male or female friend. So true I have other friends but my friend who died was my soul mate.

Since being widowed in 2018 my libido knows no bounds, I’ve turned into a rampant old woman. I have no friends male or female due to circumstances so resort to ogling quietly. ?
Having said that, the thought being intimate with anyone but my husband makes me sick. I just couldn’t do it, knocking bits with a strange man yuck.
However, if Jason Mamoa or Jason Statham happened to find themselves in my bed…….?

I find it rather sad that so many women on here see a sexual relationship as something to be avoided. Come on! Is nobody looking to be swept off their feet and made love to?

Esspee, I was married for forty years from age of 19. We grew and experimented together with love at the base of everything. He survived 7 years of chemo and horrible treatments that left him physically unable to be romantic but we still tried. It was something wonderful and special between us both, where we knew each other’s wants and desires.
The thought of sex with someone else is like stomping on his bones. It just makes me feel so sick and disloyal. It might sound stupid but I can’t ever do it again.
I hope other people can get over the death of a partner and move on but I’m sadly stuck. I never thought I’d become a virgin aged 59 !

Chardy werent Cilas escorts all gay ???
esspee no no no thanks ?not me

Would your husband have wanted you to live alone for the rest of your life Bluebellwould?

Esspee
I’m only in my 50’s but if my husband died I’d never have sex again. The thought of having sex with another man makes me feel a bit sick tbh.
Plus, knowing my luck I’d catch HIV on my 1st sexual encounter.
No, I’d be happily single for the rest of my life.

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Chardy

This thread made me think if Cilla Black, who, once widowed, had a host of male mates to escort her - Paul O'Grady, Dale Winton, Christopher Biggins.

😂😂😂😂 All lovely and gay!

Kandinsky

Esspee
I’m only in my 50’s but if my husband died I’d never have sex again. The thought of having sex with another man makes me feel a bit sick tbh.
Plus, knowing my luck I’d catch HIV on my 1st sexual encounter.
No, I’d be happily single for the rest of my life.

Me too! But then I have lovely, not at all boring, female friends, who are all very different but always up for a giggle and chat. I also have one very lovely, very long standing male friend, he’s gay!