lemsip I have admitted that I have same problem and admitted I have made the same mistake, I would have thought that my comments were more in sympathy than anything.
Having a short neck, that inevitable gets shorter as you age is a reall problem. no dangly earrings, long hair looks dreadful, it makes you look triangle shaped.
Josianne you are write about Coco Chanel looking good in a pie crust frill but her neck is longer and her whole head rises above it and rests on it, mainly because she has a longer neck. I have no objection to that kind of neck in principle.
I think everyone is blowing this outof proportion. Several people said they liked what this lady was wearing. I merely commented that I didn't and thought the neck was unflattering. it is not a crime to not agree on something like this.