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Doodledog the current wait for appointments at an NHS gender clinic is very long- this is for a first assessment and hormone treatment. Gender reassignment surgery takes even longer. There are people who have waited almost 5 years and still have not completed their treatment. Are you saying that because they cannot access surgery they should be punished by having their access to spaces limited? Isn't that by its very nature discriminatory? Dividing transwomen into those who have had surgery and those who haven't, which may depend on having the ability to pay for it.
No, I'm not saying that.
It's not about punishment, and I didn't mention surgery. IMO, places where women really want to be with other women (eg rape suites, hospital wards, prison wings) are relatively easily avoided by transwomen, and if they want acceptance everywhere else (which I am happy to give) avoiding those places seems a small price to pay. To me, it's akin to me not being welcome in some types of monastery. I understand why I wouldn't be welcome, and wouldn't dream of imposing myself. Similarly, if transwomen want to take part in sport, they should have the decency to do so as male, or stay amateur. To set a male body against a female on in an area where there are hundreds of thousands of pounds at stake (not to mention the achievement and kudos of being the winner) is blatantly unfair, and it would be easy enough for a transwoman to choose a different career.
Galaxy, I don't believe that men can become women, regardless of surgery. I am, however, willing to accept transwomen and treat them as women. I don't believe that they are women, but neither do I feel that whose who have had surgery and hormone treatment are the same as men - I think there is a difference between surgically transitioned transwomen and self-identified ones, for a number of reasons.
VS It would be a whole lot easier if instead of saying that I have missed something you said what it was. I am not psychic. I responded to your post, you said you cba to read my response because I was making assumptions. I tried to work out where my 'assumptions' lay, and replied. Nevertheless, you are still playing guessing games. This doesn't sit well with your 'I am only trying to find a way forward' persona.