Josieann
Good post maddyone at 13.42 though I don't like the word "bashing".
IF Harry had left the UK quietly and spoken kindly, deferentially, even indifferently about his family then he wouldn't be in this silly mess. I'm sure a few eyes would have rolled about asking for police protection, a few groans and even a bit of criticism, but no vehement bashing or knocking of him and Meghan would have taken place. He has brought it all on himself with his own very harsh comments over the past two years, and as someone has just said, stroppy behaviour. Even before the interview was aired, GNs on these threads were counselling him (in our comments) to go away, lie low and shut up, but it seems he was hell bent on doing the opposite. So I understand why people are now cross and critical and expect him to put up with the consequences.
So Harry didn't behave as you expect him to. In your eyes (plural "your") not behaving like a good son/grandson, especially if you are in the RF, is about as bad as it gets. He deserves everything he gets, he's brought it on himself. His fault if his wife and children get murdered. He didn't take the "counsel" of a random bunch of older women in the internet.
Run Harry. Run and take your family with you. And do what you can to stir things up. I'm sure your Granny still loves you.