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Use of 'yourself'

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Beswitched Mon 21-Feb-22 08:53:08

Several times lately I have had younger people waiters, an estate agent etc using the word 'yourself' in a way I've never heard before. "I will ring yourself in the morning", "what can I get yourself?"
Does anyone else find this a bit jarring? What's wrong with the word 'you'?

HowVeryDareYou Tue 22-Feb-22 12:22:29

I've heard it too, and it irritates me almost as much as when, in a group, we're referred to as "you guys"

sodapop Tue 22-Feb-22 13:14:09

I find it irritating as well. The use of 'myself' instead of me. Always seems like an attempt to be more grammatically correct whilst achieving the opposite.

Oldnproud Tue 22-Feb-22 13:53:08

I actually quite like "you guys"

I wonder if age makes a difference here, given that we Gransnetters cover a huge age-range.

Perhaps we should conduct a straw poll on here to find out. But that would mean revealing our ages, which many might prefer not to do! grin

I don't mind though. I am 60.

HowVeryDareYou Tue 22-Feb-22 16:01:51

I'm 62, don't like being called a "guy" or a girl.

Witzend Thu 24-Feb-22 08:58:39

Ali08

BigBertha1

Waiting staff seem to say ' you guys' a lot which irritates me.

I love Mrs. Slocombe's ' I am unanimous in that'.

My DiL works in a chain of hotel restaurants and they were told last year to stop saying 'guys'. I can't remember what they were told to say, but 'guys' is out!!

I wish others would follow suit!

Might add that I wish supermarket workers would not be told to say, ‘Thank you for waiting,’ when you don’t exactly have much choice, unless you want to dump your shopping, go home, and come back later.

‘Sorry to keep you waiting,’ would be IMO far more appropriate.
Though now I come to think of it, I haven’t heard it lately.
Has there been a general management re-think?

DiscoDancer1975 Thu 24-Feb-22 09:03:09

I think it’s ‘ polite ‘ talk. We wouldn’t normally speak like that. I notice it a lot in environments where I’m a customer.

I remember years ago...hearing someone say, ( I forget the context), “ It’s not me, myself.....it’s just me”

What my mum used to call BBC English!