Ok I am a bloke so no men have tried to chat me up, and I use an alias that clarifies which gender I am and how local people will recognise me (*the bagpipe man*).
I first went on because people had heard me play and wondered why and how I was taking this up in retirement. I have found it very positive for the very local area and have actually got a few gigs through it, although that was not my plan.
A few of the threads, like GN, are contentious, but I do not contribute to those. The interface can be a bit flakey on my iPad and I have never put the app on my phone, but I do find out about local traffic problems, and identify up coming vandalism issues that might interfere with my life, so I think, on the whole, it is more useful than not.